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jgreen # Posted on June 25, 2014 at 6:58 am



First of all, posting questions on the net certainly will help. Second, you are definitly not the ‘most loser teen guy on this planet’. How could you possibly know? It might feel that way, yes, but feelings aren’t a representation of reality. They are just something that your arises out of your thoughts. You might say that this is stupid and you really are the ‘most loser teen guy’. But I say fuck you, you aren’t and saying that over and over to yourself doesn’t help you a tiny bit.

You have to accept that you aren’t a bad person and that you can change. It will take time and it will be hard, but be honest, do you want to live the life you are living now? Before you can do anything else you have to realise, that your life is at your hands and that, no matter how bad it feels, you can do something about it and turn it towards the better. I must know, I did exactly that. I am 19 now, have a girlfriend, am fit, traveled through Australia mostly without a budget, will spend two months in France soon and afterwards I’ll start with uni. Four years ago, I was playing World of Warcraft 6 hours a day, was fat, the thought of having a girlfriend almost scared me and my grades sucked.

You can do this. You can get better. You do have the capabilities to do it and the resources you need are only two clicks away.

Make a plan about how you want to get better. Get in better shape, get a good grade on your exam, eat better, earn money, read more, whatever you want. Here you have a couple of links that might help you: (read this book, changed my life)

7 Books That Will Violently Shift Your Perspectives

8 Books For a Higher Existence

Choose Happiness: 5 Ways To Get Out Of a Funk

My Radical Realization About Self-Love

30 Challenges for 30 Days

This is just the start. There are many people like you out there. All of them think that they are the ‘most loser teen guy on this planet’ and all of them have the potential to make it out of that rut. Don’t force anything on you, but realise, that you have your life in your hands and you can do absolutely anything you want with it. You don’t have to be rich to do so. You don’t have to be an alpha male to do so. You don’t have to be Albert Einstein-genius to do so.

You are you and you can shape yourself, if you just want to.