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|Tine||# Posted on June 26, 2014 at 3:58 pm|
i dont know if i agree about the last part, i think that if you are kind to self there is no need to be a prick, bc you recognize where the other lacks, harsh words typically only closes ears, making what you intended moot, whereas firm words based on kindness that speak truth, even if undesired by the opposing person, will allow them to be heard.
i guess its about control, i wish to be myself regardless who i am facing, to give into prickness is allow them a sense of control over your self bc you are, self described, a kind person, to lose this kindness is to submit to their control, which, if they are doing something that makes you want to be a prick, is their intention in the first place, to get a rise out of you.
what do you think?