|Anonymous||# Posted on October 9, 2014 at 4:23 pm|
Everyone feels that duality between man and woman and I can’t say there is just one true expression of it called dominance and submission. I think of submission as being softer rather than hard and bending to their agenda, but often a man’s agenda is for a woman’s benefit so you could call it dominance as well. If a woman is being aggressive, a “manly” man’s aggression would be in such a way that allowed the women to trust and be softer. But a really polarized male would be aggressive in such a way to make you not trust them or want to be their woman. So it’s not so simple and polarized like that. I don’t want people to cling to a set of qualities but just to really embrace what they are sexually. I think everyone craves that relationship which fulfills them in mind body and spirit. But if it’s going to be a duality that finds union people need to be more specialized then I think they are currently encouraged. I’m speaking about having a life partner though, not just exploring your sexuality.