|jjj||# Posted on October 9, 2014 at 5:07 pm|
right. that’s very much in line with a book I recently read by Erich Fromm.
He talks about the different natures of love.
Motherly love being unconditional, all encompassing, loving purely because the child is her child.
Fatherly love being the one who approves and disapproves. The one who gives love when he feels like it’s due, which is obviously based on pretty subjective factors.
So in this case, to me, the motherly aspect sounds way more attractive. Like way ‘better’
Even you just said it there. The masculine one is a challenger of growth.
I think we’re probably quite similar in that we are both more attracted to a motherly idea of love. But that just can’t be healthy. Surely you gotta mix the two.
Is it duality versus polarity consciousness type vibe?