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Tavi Dawson # Posted on October 18, 2014 at 5:37 pm

Well, maybe you should try giving your best friend a genuine shot. Try to change your overall perspective, and remove the “friend” label that is working as a barrier between friendship and a deeper relationship (which could probably take some time). Then ask yourself, “how do I feel about him? Can we be more than just friends?”

It’s also important to consider your previous relationship. Whatever the reason for your breaking up, was it a good reason? If not then you two might just end up breaking up over and over again for insignificant reasons (which is never any fun). If it was a good reason then clearly you two should move on.

As for making a right decision.. well if such thing as a “right” decision existed, then it would probably be whichever provided true happiness.

So overall I’d say forget labels like friend or ex, forget doing what’s right or wrong, and just look them as two possible partners. Then decide which makes your heart skip a beat. You might even end up with neither of them.

– Hope this helps at least a little!