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Ben # Posted on October 20, 2013 at 12:01 pm

So confidence is quite important in maintaining attraction….the person needs to sense that you know you want them. You want them in virtue of your respect for them. As far as girls go, they’re all over the place, I prefer dudes. But you seem to have a close, honest friendship going, and that’s what precedes a healthy relationship. The example you gave when y’all were high shows that she’s thinking about you…quite intently. Maybe when she said you weren’t going to be as happy as the other fools, she was worrying about you. Or empathizing, because that’s how she thinks she is.

In any case, she’s her own person, and you’re your own. Remembering this, and all the ways you want to know more about her, is what defines your attraction. You owe it to yourself to act, whether it’s through pursuing her or resolving that that isn’t going to happen, and looking for someone else.