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SBas # Posted on August 28, 2012 at 3:53 pm

@danfontaine, wooo! I love this : ‘I suddenly can feel my ‘internal compass’. I agree, self respect rather than forcing yourself to love yourself for the wrong reasons (to deal with self-doubt etc). Address the crux of the issue head on! Good luck :)

@studentlamo, Do you want her back, honestly? or are just feeling a little worried that she has another man, and thats why you want her back?

@beyond, I totally agree that telling people your problems is exactly what labels it into a problem. They have already carried it long enough and they have already identified it as a problem in their own minds. So their stuck. But its unfair to call that ‘complaining’. Its just another process of finding answers. ‘Aceepting’ our circumstance as a consequence of our actions, is fucking hard. I know it will take time for me, but I believe it to be true. Pure expression is all thats going on. A lot of the advice is showing people that its up to THEM to change it, because at the end of the day, they brought it on themselves.