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Cody # Posted on October 21, 2013 at 1:43 pm

@heartbeat, ahh, yea especially since the drama was related to him I can see why he’d want to distance himself. I’m sure he knows the details of the situation through his friend who was there. It’s also expected that his friend would have no problem talking to you because he’s not really involved and the drama doesn’t affect him any. When I was just co-workers and friends with my ex, it was easy to talk to her not as awkward. It was only after she started to like me and put all this pressure on me that I started to distance myself.

I know how it feels though to really like someone and them not having a clue though. It sucks but sometimes you just have to move on. Sounds like your chance with this guy is blown, at least for now. I would forget about him and be aware of other possibilities. Maybe in a few years you’ll each have a couple relationships under your belt and that drama will have blown over and you’ll get another chance. You both might be more comfortable and mature and sparks could fly and you’ll both laugh over the silly pressure and chalk it up to teenage angst.