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Bobby # Posted on August 28, 2012 at 8:10 pm

@ellesoul, I was actually thinking about the opposite side of your question today while in class. Why do women want men show commitment to a relationship before they even have sex? I feel like it must stem from fear and insecurities. Maybe a fear of abandonment, or inferiority. Maybe it is a defense mechanism since women can get pregnant, and historically life for bastardized families has been very hard.
I have never talked to a man that I felt honestly only wanted one woman. I doubt that there are any women that sincerely only want one man. You can hold it against me if you wish but i wouldnt make an emotional investment in a woman that I havent had sex with. Thats just the way I am. A healthy happy sex life is very important to me in relationships. If I don’t feel that you could cut it I will immediately lose interest.