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Anonymous # Posted on October 19, 2013 at 7:45 am

@north, You’re relying on outside sources for your happiness. It sounds like you NEED to be in a relationship to be happy, which is the exact opposite of the case. You need absolutely nothing to be happy but to look inside yourself and figure out who you really are. Take this depression and use it as a stepping stone to become something greater. Independent and beautiful. You can only love others when you have learned to love everything about yourself first.

Congratulations on reaching the first step. It’s a long, lonely, and difficult road. But it was designed that way so you could actually learn something from it. No distractions. When you can enjoy the time you have by yourself and with no contact with anybody else, then maybe you can start building relationships with other people.

The positive light that emerges as a result of this trial is like a beacon to the universe. Anyone on the same frequency will resonate with you, and you will never know a love more pure. Be it family, friends or women.

Take this emotion and grab a hold of it. Examine it and really try understand why you feel the way you do. THEN, instead of wallowing in it either change your situation, or learn to accept it. Because in the end that’s all you can do in order to move on and begin enjoying life again.

I’m kind of all over the place and rambly but I hope I was able to get my point across.
Learn to love yourself before you try to love anybody else.