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|Evan||# Posted on October 20, 2013 at 12:25 am|
I think the problem here is this fantasy you talk about. You’re glamorizing sex and relationships too much, you’re mind is making them seem much more amazing then they really are. Don’t get me wrong, It’s a great feeling to fall in love and having a significant other, but it’s not like the movies. You’re judging you’re self worth on something as silly as having a girlfriend because, please don’t take this the wrong way, you’re life doesn’t have any meaning, you don’t really stand for anything. I know that sounds like a terrible thing to say but let me explain. You don’t have a passion for anything, weather it be music, film, writing, or literature. You haven’t found you’re calling, you haven’t found yourself. So what I invite you to do is find you’re passion, follow what inspires you. You mentioned you like music, don’t treat music like simple entertainment, pick up an instrument and learn to play, write songs. It doesn’t have to be art it can be anything, gardening, working out, fixing cars, cooking, anything. Be a man with purpose. The trick with woman ( if you can even call it a trick ) is to not try and attract them, because the more you try, the harder it is to attract them. Contrary to what most woman would say they don’t want a man who puts them in the center of his world, it’s too much pressure for her. They want a man with purpose, life goals, aspirations for the future, a man how can stand on his own feet without her support. Fall in love with yourself before you try and fall in love with someone else.