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Atrix # Posted on October 17, 2013 at 11:58 pm

@srhhrkr, I want a REAL relationship with her, I want to be her boyfriend… but I DON’T want to be the person to break them up for it. I WANT to tell her how I truly feel, but I can’t do that because I would feel like I’m the bad guy for taking her away from someone else. Either that, or I’ll be rejected and she’ll think its too weird for us (WHICH I ABSOLUTELY Don’t want)… However, I’m not going to say I haven’t tried or thought about telling her least. I’ve tried to hangout with her 1 on 1 (just to simply hang out and nothing more), but she was worried that (and I quote), “What if something would happen?” Which would mean either 2 things.

1) She doesn’t trust me enough not to try anything (which would hurt), because She Knows that I have feelings for her, and she doesn’t want to risk it.
2) She doesn’t trust herself enough not to try anything, because She Has feelings she doesn’t want to act upon (since she has a BF).

I want to take your advice, but again I have to go back to lose her. Thank you, I really do appreciate this advice though (and more is welcomed).