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Anonymous # Posted on August 26, 2012 at 6:29 am

I wonder why do people still use the phrase “taking for granted”. How would you describe another relations if they’re not granted to you? How should you perceive a mutual love, not just from your point of view, but from both of you? Marriage seems more and more like a deal than love between two people. I was thinking about dreaming today. What love is exactly, it’s dreaming about love, dreaming about being and doing, a whole lotta dreaming that gives you comfort even if the only thing you do is dream and if a dream is not shared, it’s only yours, it’s not love anymore. You cant’ exactly feel good if you stop dreaming, so I guess thats’ what happens to people – their dreams become separate and their mutual love isn’t savoured anymore, that’s why they start to feel unhappy, they don’t even take someone else for granted, they don’t share their own love because there isn’t any, they stopped nourishing it. Anyway, what I’m saying is indeed what I think about love, in the real world it’s nothing more than a deal with conditional favors.