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|Fernando||# Posted on October 28, 2013 at 11:48 am|
@mattgood, Maybe the question should be around whether it is important to have a efficient social life or not. I think that social relationships are something that happen naturally and indirectly, in a way that you can’t change it directly, for example when saying that you will out of nowhere start being more sociable and talk more to people. I think if you change your attitude towards life, the way you relate to people will change, for better or for worse. As @cyberdream said, the harder you work on it, the less efficient it becomes. Trying to get more efficient will only get you more expectations from yourself, leading to disappointment and frustration. Let it grow naturally, aiming where you want it to grow.
Just out of curiosity, are you brazilian?