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Manimal # Posted on March 27, 2013 at 1:15 pm

@cicelyrain, Well, because it is crazy and weird, pretty much. You’re a human being, a mammal, a living organism that’s made for reproduction. You have this source of immense pleasure in your own body and mind, and you’re not embracing it…

Don’t get me wrong, there’s many advantages to keeping the shagging on the backburner. But omitting it completely makes no sense.
It’s like one of those people who go to a restaurant, take one look at the menu, then leave because all the dishes are foreign.
You don’t even know what it is you’re missing/ignoring.

Being in love is fucking awesome, enhances the feeling of life manifold, loosens up that overstimulated ego a bit. Sex is fucking awesome. Feels super great, super fun, in mind and body alike, and you’re sharing the experience with another person.
Don’t be afraid of getting too close to someone.

If you lack the drive, something is not right. People who come to life wanna get their love on, it’s a natural reaction. If this lack is missing, something is not right in your life. If the drive is there but you’re suppressing it, you’re gonna have a bad time, gotta let yourself go once in a while.

But there are no musts, and normal is an imaginary concept. If you care what other people think of you, you’re gonna have a bad time no matter what you do or what you become. Because nobody’s perfect, and people will always find reasons to complain and alienate and trashtalk. Haters gonna hate.

If you don’t wanna bang, then don’t. Simple as that. It’s your life, your decision.
And if someone has a problem with that they can go fuck themselves. It’s not your problem.

People who are obsessed with sex (the majority of the masses) and those who shy away from it both have it all wrong, gotta find the balance in between.
Because good sex has very positive effects on the mind and body.