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vivaciouslyv # Posted on October 26, 2013 at 6:41 pm

@swinslet, It sounds like he doesn’t know what he wants. My ex-boyfriend was like this and he constantly doubted and went back and forth. When I asked for his reasons he would “express his thoughts” relatively incoherently without giving true reasons. He didn’t know what he wanted (or doubted what he wanted) and could never make a decision (until the end). It caused me a ridiculous amount of pain and without him I am happier than I have ever been before. We were together for five years and the behavior you described never went away. Don’t put yourself through that unless you are sure.