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Jleebs # Posted on October 26, 2013 at 8:00 pm

Listen to @vivaciouslyv. She’s right, when it comes to people who can’t make up their mind it will really only cause you pain. If he’s not sure what he wants then you should really accept it as it’s not going to work out, at least not well. There’s also no point in wasting time on a relationship that’s never going to be serious. If you two really wanted, like reaaally wanted to be together, you wouldn’t worry about the distance, and you two would make do with the time you had with each other, and you wouldn’t worry about hurting each other because that assumes that you may not work out as well as you planned. However, it being his first relationship he could also be wary of it. Just be careful with how you lead toward it. Do what you think is right though, follow your heart and your instincts. No amount of advice can trump your intuition. Especially because through following your intuition you’ll learn yourself.