|vivaciouslyv||# Posted on October 28, 2013 at 12:53 pm|
@araeya09, I was in a long term relationship where something similar happened (from his end though, I had a libido). If neither of you are willing to try new things (or say you will but never do ) you should evaluate why the connection is gone. Maybe one (or both of you) is questioning your sexuality or attraction to the other. Maybe you quit trying to feel sexy and just feel comfortable, which lowers attraction. Many times libido/attraction is lowered when something else is going on. It may be a symptom of a problem but not the actual problem.