a guy invited me to church. what does that mean?

 viny-anne (@viny-anne)6 years, 9 months ago

What does it mean if a guy invites a girl to his church?

December 18, 2014 at 3:19 am
Martijn Schirp (112,780)A (@martijn) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

Personally, I am not swayed by the idea that church goers are more holy or spiritual than other people, so the fact that it is a church shouldn’t matter that much. What does it normally mean when a guy invites a girl out?

(it could very well mean that the appearance he wants to put forth is important to him, but his intentions are still open to question.)

UnchainedPsyche (13) (@UnchainedPsyche) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

Well, that depends on a multitude of factors. What is your relationship with him, how old is he, are you religious etc… I think either he’s trying to “save your soul” or he likes you and is trying to see if you can get along with him in his prefered environment. Who knows.

Ethan (0) (@Ethan24) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

Well it depends, have you displayed a religious affiliation that is akin to his? How long have you known each other and are you friends?

viny-anne (9) (@viny-anne) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

@ethan24, I’ve known him since I was 7 years old, now I’m 21. And I guess we are friends, we used to play together.

josephm (772) (@josephm) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

if youve known him for that long then he just wants a chance to talk to you, but with maybe a slim to a greater chance that he may be lusting.

Ry (0) (@theonlyry) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

I had a girl invite me to church and I went because I liked her at the time. It was probably the second time I’ve ever gone, but I figured it couldn’t hurt. It was basically like a date, I guess. I don’t know. I wouldn’t think too much of it.

John (29) (@JDrifter) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

He probably wants to see if you can fit in with his most cherished environment. He’s trying to see if your worthy of him… maybe. just go and be yourself

JonH (1,139)C (@IJesusChrist) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

I get invited to church by this girl every time I see her. I think it means he’s either 1) on a crusade to convert everyone or 2) he thinks this is going to make you want to marry him and you both fall in love blah blah blah

Anonymous (17) (@) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

Well, if it were me I’d say: Here’s the deal. Does the church have a choir? Are they strikingly good? Conditions, conditions. Some choirs are good, others are just batshit insanely amazing. I know what I want.

Ray Butler (1,423)M (@trek79) 6 years, 9 months ago ago

I keep in mind that people believe things that bring them comfort and if they find something that works for them they are excited about sharing it with others, he may just like you as a friend and think you may appreciate the kind of meaning that he has found there.

It depends on the Church but they mostly don’t allow much moral wriggle room, there are usually a lot of conditions involved, takes a lot of commitment. If this guy is romantically interested in you I’d suggest that inviting you to Church means he is not very confident in his ability to woo you so his religious affiliation acts as an excuse for his reservations, basically declaring “slow and steady”. For example if you and I were dating you could expect hot moves pretty early on, but this guy may be awkward and miss your cues, and you will chalk it down to him simply being a good Christian boy who respects you and has moral fortitude.

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