Be who you want to be don’t change to what you ought to be. Be what you want to be, don’t be what they say to be. Become who you are meant to be.
There is truth in this, its not just a cliche. We are pressured to act a certain way, certain people want to manipulate us to sell us something, conform to their ideals. You really have a choice. Regardless of your background or class, you are unique. Nobody else is like you.