Clubbing…

patience (@patience) 9 years, 9 months ago

patience got offered to go clubbing tomorrow night with a bunch of workmates, and patience not really into clubbing, but patience feels like this is an opportunity to try something different, should patience go? can patience have some wisdom regarding the gathering of dancing intoxicated sheep and junk? by the way, patience is slightly socially awkward because he thinks too much at the time, but not like, overly awkward, just a little, just a tad.

August 10, 2012 at 3:19 am
Anonymous (2,654) (@) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

Patience shouldn’t be so pathetic.

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lionsmane (22) (@santi) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@patience, You should go out, because:
1. Life is short
2. You should make the best of it by making new experiences
3. You have to go out of your comfort zone to grow as a person.

NOW; GO OUT AND GROOOOW LIKE A TREE (or a boss, whatever)

Cheers.

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patience (147) (@patience) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

it was criticism, but not constructive. please elaborate? how is patience pathetic? what does patience do that is pathetic? will going clubbing make me not pathetic? how can patience not be pathetic? is asking these questions making patience look pathetic?

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patience (147) (@patience) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@santi, thanks, but if it’s something i have done before, and didn’t enjoy, do i still have room to grow? at the time i can deal with it, you know, being a sane human who can get through good shit and bad shit with no complaints, but is it worth the interaction with boring humans?

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believerinme2 (1) (@hyvon92) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

If u think about going clubbing even in the slightest, then i think you want to go. Being with people that you can trust will make your experience more fun if you don’t over think things. If you feel pressured into going then don’t go. Go if YOU want to, not because your friends want you to.

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lionsmane (22) (@santi) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@patience, I think if you let yourself go, the universe will surprise you and so will the so-called “boring” humans.
Choose a club with the music you like and stop worrying, just enjoy the new situations and your reaction.
Hope I could help you in any way.
CHeers

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Nam (22) (@lyon) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@patience,
Everywhere we go, any situation, we play a different part/character. You could try out “patience goes clubbing”. Might be fun. Call it a social experiment?

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lionsmane (22) (@santi) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@lyon, I think calling it a social experiment is the wrong way too go. She overanalyses everything already and making humans into objects won`t help her out of this situation. Just be yourself. You already know what you want to do patience..

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Tom (7) (@420dreamsheep) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

Depends entirely on the type of club. If it is one of those places that play chart crap and are essentially just places for drunken people to meet before they fornicate, then you may not enjoy it. On the other hand, if it is a real club with a proper DJ and proper music that you can get into, then definitely go, regardless of who you are with and how you feel, if they are playing good music that you can get into then you will have an awesome (if you let yourself).

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Anonymous (50) (@) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@patience, yo patience, what i got from that is you do little to no clubbing so i’ll give you some hints. drink moderately and dance on the tables not sit in the corners. don’t be self-conscious bout your dancing and you’ve basically got it. copy other peoples dance moves and just go nuts. Honestly my best times is just feeling the music even when im not feeling it but pretending i do till i actually do.

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@theequinox89, Oh, you’re an idiot, a moron, a dumbass, a … ok, whatever, the point is people telling my what this site is for. I don’t even have the PATIENC

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Ray Butler (1,423)M (@trek79) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

Let a girl touch your penis.

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FindYourGreatness (345)C (@jpete011) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

ACT and stop REACTING patience.

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Manimal (2,998) (@manimal) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@patience Of course you should, it’s great stuff.

I do agree, in a way, with Sasho about the pathetic bit. No offence mate, I’m not judging or anything but pathetic is who pathetic does. What is it that you do that is pathetic?

•Asking others for what to do. It’s your life man.
•Judging people you do not know (intoxicated sheep, yea right, cause I’m sure you know every person in every club.)
•Being socially awkward.
•Thinking too much.
•Sticking to your comfort zone, letting ego homeostasis decide, and rationalizing it.
•You know that you have a problem (social anxiety) but you don’t fix it, instead you use it as an excuse to make it worse. Not very bright y’know.

There’s nothing WRONG with you, it’s just the way you’re currently behaving, and you can change it all but it’s never gonna change if you keep validating it. Go crush your problems, change your life. The only solution to social anxiety is exposure to social pressure, and it’s very quick and very simple. It will improve your life a lot. This clubbing shit is the PERFECT opportunity.

Stay away from the alcohol though, that shit is just plain super lame. Enjoy the noise and the funny people and the hot horny girls. It’s the perfect place to change your life, given your current situation.

And don’t be such a negatron, work that positive attitude mate.

Good luck, have a ball. Peace
//Elion the manimal

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yoinkie (1,498)C (@yoinkie) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

I didnt know what the fuck you were talking about until I realized your name is patience. I cant stant people who talk in the third person, they annoy Yoinkie.

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Sean LeBlanc (76) (@bongodeburrito) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@patience, I’m not a big fan of them myself, but I try to look at everything as an experience that you can get something out of. Have fun, shut off your brain and go crazy on the dance floor, start a riot. Maybe you’ll like it. I wouldnt recommend talking to everyone in the third person though, you might scare them. Or dont give a fuck about what other people think. Its your choice.

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DaJetPlane (994)M (@lytning91) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@patience, find out if they are gathering beforehand. Get some snazzy clothes that give you a good vibe, and wear them. If they are pre-gaming, go over and have a few drinks…maybe even offer to bring a bottle of something to contribute. Have a few drinks, get relaxed, and go enjoy yourself.

This is coming from someone who dislikes the mindlessness of clubs. I have been to these types of things with a chick before and it just turns into me standing pretty still while her butt is rubbed all over my jeans. It’s so uninspiring to me. That being said, if it was a really smoking chick that I’d never met before, perhaps that’d be a huge kick in the spice and I’d enjoy it more. Overall, I’ll never love a club.

If you are really nervous, maybe trying to attain a few dance moves beforehand would relax you. Etiquette for these events usually makes people more or less comfortable, so check out some youtube videos and see if you can find anything that you find doable and fun for you.

The key thing here is to make sure that, whatever you decide to do, it’s done in a way that makes this rewarding for you. If none of it comes together, just pass, because forcing yourself to have a really bad time is just going to make things stiff.

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Anonymous (364) (@) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

@patience, Just enjoy the madness. Let down your guard and see what enjoyment can be had.

Now excuse me while I let down my guard and prepare for madness…..

http://www.stockroach.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/01-CHEERS1.jpg

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Bryan Hellard (307)M (@xyver) 9 years, 9 months ago ago

Yes

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