Hello everyone, hope you all have a great year, full of adventures and love <3
Lately I’ve been very confused, questions that I didn’t expect pop up to my mind, strange feelings and some strange moods that I think the cause is ->. Recently I’ve met 3 female friends with whom I’ve connected deeply, a great friendship was built. I have feelings for them that I only can call love, my entire life I’ve felt passion for some girls and I thought that it was love, but now I came to the conclusion that love is passion without the crazy effect of it. The thing is now I don’t know if I’m feeling a love-love, or a love-friend kind of love and that makes me in a strange place where I’m not fully happy.
I wish I could download my brain and plug it here so you guys could maybe understand this situation a little bit better. As I finished writting this I don’t even know if this is the main problem anymore… I’m full of ?????? in my head.
Just stop labeling it like that.
It’s all the same thing really.
The same combination of feelings and desires and neurotransmitters, just different ratios.
This can morph over time, let it breathe and live.
The hippies had it right on this stuff. Just let it be, go with the flow of love. Don’t stifle it and put it into compartments. It’s just love.
Don’t ruin it.
I agree with @manimal. You should let it take it’s time and relax – have fun with it and enjoy being loved this way. Most people feel this way many times ind their lives and it is necassary for humans to feel deep love once in a while. Don’t label it too soon though! We feel different kinds of love towards different people in our lives. Family-love, friend-love, big-love and just general love and kindness towards stuff we care about. I hope you get happier at some point and let it rest for a little while. You don’t HAVE to label your relationships just have fun with it and enjoy the love :-) Good luck!