I had a dream maybe a week ago about a girl. I’ve always had a big crush on her I guess. Anyways when I awoke from a dream I has about her and I was still completely in love with her. I’ve never felt more peaceful and ease in my life, and she has no idea. Every once in a while I’ll go through a phase where I’ll only listen to a certain song or rapper and I’ll be really passionate about it. Or I’ll really want to watch a certain movie and then this same girl will make a post about it on Facebook. I believe in the laws of attraction and I have a couple books about it but I’m not sure. I also think that pure love can only exist in dreams, maybe because I’ve never been ‘head over heels’ in love but in dreams I always never hold back any emotions, I say whats on my mind, and everythings just fantastic. I think even if I worked on and fixed the problems I have in real life love still couldn’t be the same as in my dreams. We as humans search for flaws in other people, whether consciously or not.
@bradydunnn101, My dreams are the same way. I’m never anxious in them and am very outgoing, kind and playful; and the people in the dreams are never judging me off my looks or style or anything, they seem as free-spirited and worry-less as me. It’s made for some fantastic dream relationships and I almost feel I’ve experienced more love and compassion and friendship in my dreams than I have in reality. So I’ve been trying to figure out lately what it is about dreams that lets us behave so naturally in them. I notice within 30 seconds of waking up that a switch is flipped and my thoughts are very cyclical and worrisome. I think about all the shit I have to do and things I should have done and it can be like a swarm of anxieties.
I’ve been trying to pay close attention to the moment we fall asleep and the moment we wake up, and everything that happens inbetween. Have you noticed you can never quite recall the last thought you had before falling asleep? It’s a very subtle transition from thoughts and memory to visualizing and being. If we could harness that mindset and access it consciously, perhaps we can live more dream-like.
I like the law of attraction too and have witnessed coincidences that are a little bizarre. I’ve also had dreams that were premonitions, and when I actually live the situation everything feels like deja vu. Also DMT is related to dreaming and has a very similar onset where the lines between reality and dreamland are blurred and it’s hard to remember quite when and how. I also feel very at-home and self-confident in a DMT trip, my worldly worries just disappear. Coming down leaves a feeling of refreshment, like just waking from a night’s sleep, and reassurance that life is bigger than we understand and all going according to plan. Specifically on my most recent breakthrough, time unified. It may sound a little crazy or fictional, but I believe I saw the future. More than that, I could see my past, present and future at the same time. It was total awareness of my existence and what it becomes. It was the closest thing to what I imagine enlightenment would feel like and was extremely gratifying… but I wasn’t able to bring any of that back except the memory of the feeling and a cheap metaphor that it was like watching every channel on the T.V. at once.
I’m still trying to figure out how this all fits together and how it can be used. It’s a little insane so it’s hard to talk about with people or even understand myself.
No dude , this happens to me ALL THE TIME!
For example was looking at an old friend from grade school who i hadn’t seen in 10 years on Facebook i said to myself for a brief and honest moment while looking at one of her pictures. I wonder what she’s like now. About half a week later guess who into? that old friend weird isn’t it.
This happens in all different types of ways but it’s definitely consistent. I’m trying to figure out if i think about these people because i will be seeing them or if i see them because i thought of them. Drives me crazy.
I heard this this power of thought only happens when we TRULY think of things otherwise every possibly situation and natural disaster would happen all the time.
@shomari, I like when you said ”I’m trying to figure out if I think about these people because I will be seeing them or if I see them because I thought of them” I’ve never looked at it from that perspective before, Maybe it is premonition. I’ve also heard the thought or feeling has to be genuine. Or embedded in your sub-conscious somehow.
@bradydunnn101, “in dreams I always never hold back any emotions, I say whats on my mind, and everythings just fantastic”
I believe that communication is key, if you are holding back you aren’t really communicating and are not being true to who you are, as long as you are living the life of a facade you wont be loved for you which may/may not lead to you maintaining a distance (emotionally) from the people that love the facade.
Of course the exception here is people that need to fix things like being unnecessarily an asshole towards others, trying to force (not share) your opinions (not facts) on others, etc.
That’s my 2 cents
@ishetat, I appreciate your opinion and everything but I don’t understand where your coming from at all. How does ”Not communicating” mean that I’m not being true to who I really am? I’m probably more reluctant to opening myself up to someone then others, that doesn’t mean I’m “putting up a façade.” What you said makes sense, but its not relevant.
I believe that you can communicate with people in a telepathic sense, I was recently thrown under a bus by a girl that I really do like. (figuratively speaking, feels like it literally too.) Today she posts she wants a thigh tattoo, about 5 minutes earlier I had thought about how good thigh tattoos look on women. Coincidence, sure if you say so. Sometimes I do believe the universe can speak between 2 people. I think that there is a such thing as true soulmates, I am still very much cynical as to the good in life. I really do feel that an “outer force” if you wish, is trying to facilitate some form of communication between us, if not for any other reason than to put me at ease.