Fake boobs

Fake tits are nasty. Titties themselves are nice to look at (if they’re real). But if I see they’re fake, it’s a major turn off. I like people to be as “themselves” as they can be.

“I only want to talk to people who agree with me.”

I agree that natural is more attractive, but I’m only 24 and have not suffered much sagging yet. Honestly once these puppies start making their way toward my waist, who knows how I will feel? I would never get implants because I am well endowed, but after possible children and sagging, maybe I will want a “lift” or something. Then again hopefully I’ll be less concerned about superficial things by then.

Fake clevage bothers me. Makes me feel awkward and swlf consious of my own real clevage. Like ‘does she have something againts smaller clevage?’ ‘Is she superior?’ I question their ego and inflation of self.

My Friend did it for confidence, not over doing it either. I can image how it can shoot confidence levels through the roof- she’s not a “club scene” girl either.

I’ll just say it is easy for guys to judge girls for what they do to seem more attractive, but they don’t know what it’s like to live as a female with such pressure to look certain ways. You’re made to feel less of a woman for a smaller chest, yet if you’re sagging(inevitably comes with larger breasts with time), that’s also unattractive… yet breast implants are too. You just can’t win. Oh well :)

Fake boobs are a form of body modification. I don’t look down on women with fake boobs any more than I look down on people with piercings or tattoos.

@patrickparish, Not my personal preference, but you can’t discount “I do it for me” comments.

Why do you bother to comb your hair? (or look in the mirror and make sure it’s messy or whatever you do with your hair) Why pick out that outfit? Those shoes? Is it to attract a mate? For every decision about your appearance, do you do the math of what other people will think, how attractive you are to them?

No. Many decisions we make about our appearance are to satisfy our own sense of aesthetic, preference, delight. We do this or that with our hair, cover blemishes, and pick this shirt because we like it.

Personally, I draw the line at surgery, but I think that may be an arbitrary line. Piercings, tattoos, high heels, vanity trips to the gym, shaving, hipster mustaches…it’s all an interplay of personal preference, societal norms, risk, and the response of other people.

It may be worth looking at your own decisions and judgments of your own choices to discover why this topic bothers you so much.

@patrickparish I really don’t care what you think I should do.

@patrickparish, It’s a point I’m beginning to get slowly, but undoing a lifetime of conditioning is easier said than done ;)

@patrickparish, My point is exactly that: you make choices about your appearance to your own satisfaction, not for other people. Consider the possibility that people who primp and modify and paint and squeeze and powder are not doing it for you either. They’re doing it for themselves.

But seriously, it’s worth looking at why it rubs you the wrong way. Our personal shadow speaks to us when we find something or someone that really annoys, scares, or baffles us.

I have the end all be all answer to this dilemma!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Everyone mind their own damn business.

@patrickparish, Respect a women? Well, if I ever met A womEn I’d be baffled and probably a bit scared, I mean… women are usually not clumped together into a single being.
Sorry bro, couldn’t resist.

I don’t like fake boobs, they look weird and feel even weirder. And they’re fake. I don’t like fake.
Not a fan of make-up and other fake “pretty” stuff either.

So yeah, I don’t respect that shit. I mean, implanting toxic materials just for some superficial fake beauty is just fucking extremely moronic.
And yknow what? That trend can change quickly, boob fixation is really just a trend, and the fixation with bigger is also just a trend.

I don’t respect people who put that much time, effort and money into lying.

@tangledupinplaid21, Pressure? Pahah!
People have all sorts of “values” and shit they expect of others, doesn’t mean anyone has to give in to that shit.
After all, who are they to judge you? And if they do, what does it fucking matter?

“Guys don’t know what it’s like”

Do you realize how stupid that sounds? We face just as many expectations, if not more, just of a different nature. Whatever, screw that sexist shit.