Fake boobs
Can any guy honestly say he has any respect for a women with fake boobs?
Can any women honestly say they expect respect after making the decision to acquire men impressing aspects?
Does anyone else feel really strongly against this?
(I “do it for me” comments – not welcome, only causes further frustration)
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I agree that natural is more attractive, but I’m only 24 and have not suffered much sagging yet. Honestly once these puppies start making their way toward my waist, who knows how I will feel? I would never get implants because I am well endowed, but after possible children and sagging, maybe I will want a “lift” or something. Then again hopefully I’ll be less concerned about superficial things by then.
@spaceghost yes that is actually what i meant!
Forgive my desire to discuss the foundations of my view with those that share it.
If you don’t appreciate something don’t comment.
if its likes you’re after get on facebook..
@chodebalm, thanks for commenting mate!
I agree totally but also find it frustrating that the motive for such surgery is to gain attention.. why would you want to attach something to you to gain attention surely attention is only desired when its deserved!?
I’ll just say it is easy for guys to judge girls for what they do to seem more attractive, but they don’t know what it’s like to live as a female with such pressure to look certain ways. You’re made to feel less of a woman for a smaller chest, yet if you’re sagging(inevitably comes with larger breasts with time), that’s also unattractive… yet breast implants are too. You just can’t win. Oh well :)
@patrickparish, Not my personal preference, but you can’t discount “I do it for me” comments.
Why do you bother to comb your hair? (or look in the mirror and make sure it’s messy or whatever you do with your hair) Why pick out that outfit? Those shoes? Is it to attract a mate? For every decision about your appearance, do you do the math of what other people will think, how attractive you are to them?
No. Many decisions we make about our appearance are to satisfy our own sense of aesthetic, preference, delight. We do this or that with our hair, cover blemishes, and pick this shirt because we like it.
Personally, I draw the line at surgery, but I think that may be an arbitrary line. Piercings, tattoos, high heels, vanity trips to the gym, shaving, hipster mustaches…it’s all an interplay of personal preference, societal norms, risk, and the response of other people.
It may be worth looking at your own decisions and judgments of your own choices to discover why this topic bothers you so much.
@sandman, Hi Sandy, thanks for your thoughts and comments!
Fortunately i go to work everyday having given 0 attention to my appearance, i wear a shirt and tie because it is required of my profession however i can assure you no effort is invested in attracting others.
I understand that for you personally, attraction is something to value and attraction is generated by making observations. For me these observations are more based around personality then breast size..
My view is if you’re “doing it for me” .. you’re yet to do anything for you.. everything you do is as a reaction to societies expectations and desires..
When i wake up and choose not to invest time in my appearance it is so instead i can invest time in eating breakfast and taking a nice slow poo rather than rushing it!
I will review my decision tomorrow morning but find it unlikely that I choose to waddle to work for the sake of attracting the dum ass receptionist with the double D’s!!
@donjaime23, personally i do not like peircings or tattoo’s as with fake boobs i think it is an attempt to design yourself. Let your actions represent you, if a tattoo is required to express yourself I cant imagine said person is particularly interesting?
However Tattoos and Peircings are considerably more respectable because they are not done with the sole intention of attracting sexual attention..
(anyone wanting to criticize my view, please feel free but i’d much rather hear about why you have yours)
@tangledupinplaid21, You can win if you’re the one holding the fucking score card which is the point im beginning to realise people are missing :(
@patrickparish, My point is exactly that: you make choices about your appearance to your own satisfaction, not for other people. Consider the possibility that people who primp and modify and paint and squeeze and powder are not doing it for you either. They’re doing it for themselves.
But seriously, it’s worth looking at why it rubs you the wrong way. Our personal shadow speaks to us when we find something or someone that really annoys, scares, or baffles us.
I’m sorry but I do not think you understand the point.
By way of correcting you; its not being rubbed the wrong way. It’s being dissatisfied by the mindless majority that have no values other than adherence or status.
I fear you fall (if at a shallow depth) into this category.
Certain irony upon reflection!
“Our personal shadow speaks to us when we find something or someone that really annoys, scares, or baffles us.” this isn’t even relevant and only demonstrates the motive for your contribution.
:/ fully disappointed sir!
@patrickparish, Respect a women? Well, if I ever met A womEn I’d be baffled and probably a bit scared, I mean… women are usually not clumped together into a single being.
Sorry bro, couldn’t resist.
I don’t like fake boobs, they look weird and feel even weirder. And they’re fake. I don’t like fake.
Not a fan of make-up and other fake “pretty” stuff either.
So yeah, I don’t respect that shit. I mean, implanting toxic materials just for some superficial fake beauty is just fucking extremely moronic.
And yknow what? That trend can change quickly, boob fixation is really just a trend, and the fixation with bigger is also just a trend.
I don’t respect people who put that much time, effort and money into lying.
@tangledupinplaid21, Pressure? Pahah!
People have all sorts of “values” and shit they expect of others, doesn’t mean anyone has to give in to that shit.
After all, who are they to judge you? And if they do, what does it fucking matter?
“Guys don’t know what it’s like”
Do you realize how stupid that sounds? We face just as many expectations, if not more, just of a different nature. Whatever, screw that sexist shit.
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