Feeling less and less horny

fucksake (@fucksake) 8 years, 3 months ago

I think im losing interest in sex ?

Do you guys feel less horny as you get older ?

I started masturbating very young , around 6 years old

As a 14-19 year old i would masturbate a lot , some times up to 5 times a day !

I would fuck my ex girlfriend up to 3 times whenever i was with her , i was very horny .

Now i am 21, and it feels as if though sex is becoming very boring, and it has lost its magic and appeal. I dont feel any real drive to meet girls , or even fuck them .

I can barely feel horny enough to jerk off and it takes me around 30 minutes to cum.

Some days i dont feel horny at all, like today.

Does anyone else feel less and less horny ? Its kind of depressing . Any tips or advice ? Please ?

October 21, 2013 at 4:57 am
Anonymous (3) (@) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

Have you tried to stop masturbation?

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Shady Giorgio (30) (@giorgioknolege) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

Umm Well i am still a teen tho i read about this problem.

I remember reading or watching on ted someone explain that if teens masturbate allot(sex does not count) then as they get older and leave puberty, which is 21 for most guys, they go threw a time(mouths or year/s) where they feel depressed and underused which is ‘normal’ but it is highly suggested that men who are experiencing this kind of depression “should not masturbate” at all. basically not masturbating gives you back your Mojow haha; but remember to take it as long as you can. Maybe until you get laid or something.

I am sorry for the lake of detail but i hope it helps!
take care!

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andrew (2) (@plingpong) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

No Porn: No Masturbation: 30 Days

I’ll do the 30 day challenge with you if you want.

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Strathy (5) (@strathy) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

Stop jerking the noggin and actually find a sex partner that you love unconditionally, that will help greatly… Or just have a time-out with your partner only to talk, do new stuff together without sex (just couple of weeks). Believe me the second advice changed a lot of things with my girlfriend :) Good luck :)

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inna (95) (@paintedbeings) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

@fucksake, its possible that what turns you on is not present in the people you meet and therefore doesn’t provoke such a reaction – so looking at it from the perspective of lack of cause for the effect is a possibility since when people are young, sex is exciting and new and over time loses that luster if its just sex without a defined cause. Plus the hormonal composition that accounts for common horniness in youth is no longer the same in this stage.

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josephm (772) (@josephm) 8 years, 3 months ago ago
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fucksake (26) (@fucksake) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

@askarben1, if i stop for like a week i feel more horny… but thats a whole week dude !

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fucksake (26) (@fucksake) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

@plingpong, it seems like this is the only true solution to my problem .. .sucks as jerking off has always been a favourite hobby of mine… but i guess its got to be done…. fuck my life

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Zachrie (28) (@Zachrie) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

@fucksake, Haha I love your honesty dude.

But yeah, no worries I would say. Take a break and go on with your other interests I’m sure you must have. If you meet a girl you really like and your boy down there still gives you no reaction you might wanna look that shit up.

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Matt Overstreet (34) (@phaction) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

Boy, do I wish I was in your shoes… I can’t stand that i’m so horny. I’ve got a girlfriend & everything, but I keep wankin’ it. It’s bad hahaha. Maybe you’re just maturing?

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Smoky (17) (@smokyego) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

@fucksake, Hey mate, I understand your problem. Sexuality is a funny beast. A mixture of hormonal, emotional and mental/spiritual factors.
If you are looking to improve your libido make sure you tick all the boxes.

Hormones – TESTOSTERONE. Decreases when puberty starts slowing down. Which is probably where your at. Lots of good resources online to help you estimate where you are at. There are a lot of dr’s that clinically say you have ‘normal’ T levels, when they should be higher for a young guy!
High testosterone isn’t just for meatheads – but they do know their stuff. Online bodybuliding forums have heaps of info that is very good!

Emotional – Chicken and egg scenario but depression leads to lower libido in males. It seems like ‘not wanting to go out and meet girls’ a pretty common thing in depressed guys. –Love? Depending on your own thoughts on the topic you might find that ‘making love’ is better than jerking off – and you might get hornier with a girl( or guy no judgement haha) that you truly click with.

Mental/spiritual – Overthinking sex and sexual matters can lead to probelms down there. Instead of trying to make yourself cum just enjoy the ride when you are having sex/ jerking off.
-Spiritual state can affect you. High stress/Disturbances in Qi/Energy flow/ natural body mojo. Look into these matters yourself and try medititaing.

Im no expert but I am very interested in these matters, here is just afew suggestions! Wish you all the best.

P.S.. Is there really a problem or is it just an ego thing? Sure you aren’t super super horny anymore, but you still seem to have a sex drive. Just because you aren’t the same as the old you – doesn’t neccesarily mean you are worse off. You could always look at the silver lining (more spare time lol).

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Smoky (17) (@smokyego) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

That being said you might want to nip it in the bud before it goes any further…

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Kyle (131) (@kyle) 8 years, 3 months ago ago

Get your testosterone levels checked out.

I’ll save you a bunch of time of reading how to raise it. Sleep more, eat clean, exercise moderately, stop stressing and take your vitamins (especially D).

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