Female Illuminati

I’ve found that its much harder to find an enlightened girl than an enlightened guy (though both are super rare). 

Am I just not looking in the right places? It doesn’t seem there’s any rhyme or reason as to where these type of people congregate. 

Can anyone relate to this?

August 24, 2015 at 12:13 pm
Xadious (17) (@ZachTheReliable) 6 years ago ago

It depends on what you classify as “Enlightened”. I don’t mean to offend you (I wish not to) but maybe you might not be enlightened yourself. 

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Harpers Dragon (7) (@harpersdragon) 6 years ago ago

It’s not a stone cold thing that can be defined I guess because it can manifest itself in so many ways, but let’s say here are a few almost universal characteristics:

  1. They understand the power and importance of faith as an emotion
  2. They realize the world is filled with childish games and isn’t to be taken too seriously
  3. They understand they have a soul and they aren’t just a composite of chemical reactions



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Mike Wuest (510) (@mikeyw829) 6 years ago ago

Lots of those people are very shy/don’t go out of their way to talk to people.  

They are the people you would overlook much of the time

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Harpers Dragon (7) (@harpersdragon) 6 years ago ago

Yeah I completely agree with this, still the Law of Attraction should bring you to them somehow.

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Dhyan (37) (@Dhyan) 6 years ago ago

I guess  this is a typical  male question.  It’s made in mind,  woman you feel.  It’s a different  approach  to reality 

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Harpers Dragon (7) (@harpersdragon) 6 years ago ago

I don’t understand why its male?

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Dhyan (37) (@Dhyan) 6 years ago ago

See  it as man is one pole,  female  the other  pole. Or as ying,  yang.  Thinking  is one approach,  feeling  another.  A question  that  is based  on male energy,  tries  to find  a solution  in male  energy.  There  are many  enlightened  woman,  yet  they  are  not behaving  like  a man :-) 

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Harpers Dragon (7) (@harpersdragon) 6 years ago ago

Well that’s not what I meant, of course they are out there, but I’ve found they’re much harder to find.

Probably because of the reasons your mentioning. 

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LVX (297) (@Vovinawol) 6 years ago ago

Are you looking for an enlightened guy, a girl, or just yourself?

If your looking for another your looking in the wrong place.

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Anjelica (101) (@Anjelica) 5 years, 10 months ago ago

Even if you get something from an outside source, you are the one who manifested it 

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LVX (297) (@Vovinawol) 6 years ago ago

A male may be a source, but a female is the receiver, therefore there is no difference when enlightenment is concerned.   

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PostSynapse (4) (@postsynapse) 6 years ago ago

What are your motivations in trying to find an enlightened female? 

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Harpers Dragon (7) (@harpersdragon) 6 years ago ago

I’ve been able to discuss new levels of knowledge with some of my more enlightened male counterparts but it always stays so intellectual because you know we’re both males.

I think a female mind would allow me to dig deeper emotionally and also spark certain thoughts that no discussion with a male can.

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Kw (0) (@[email protected]) 6 years ago ago

It may not be about digging deeper,  that you do for yourself on your own, it may be a case of turning the way you look and think of things up side down ….

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Dhyan (37) (@Dhyan) 6 years ago ago

Mind  is not female  that’s your big mistake. 
Mind  is sexless  and bullshit. 
Enlightened  might be life  any life  because  it’s life 

 And I don’t want  to be rude ,  by saying  mind is bullshit. 

Thoughts  can not be truth  because  they are translated  in language,and  there  is something  for  language. 

Even we fuck  up experience  by giving  it words,  it’s at least  a bit closer  to the origin. 

Greetsz 

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Harpers Dragon (7) (@harpersdragon) 6 years ago ago

So are you saying mentally an emotionally men and women, generally speaking are exactly the same?

Because if they are not, then there’s a certain type of mind that is female and a certain type of mind that is male.

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Dhyan (37) (@Dhyan) 6 years ago ago

Wow  you must have been sherlock  holmes  in your past  life   how much  mentally  and emotionally  do you think  is based  on social,  cultural  ethnical   etc etcprocesses?   What’s your mind   without  words? 

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Dhyan (37) (@Dhyan) 6 years ago ago

And  it’s a bullshit  reply  sorry  I didn’t  sleep 

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PostSynapse (4) (@postsynapse) 6 years ago ago

That makes sense to me. 

I would say there are definitely differences in the male/female mind emotionally. 

For example, when I leave my house I am on high alert with a “don’t mess with me front” almost all the time due to my own fears of violence, harassment and ultimately murder and rape. I simply do not feel I am adequately prepared to defend myself if need be. (I am making daily active steps to help me feel adequately prepared if such were to happen with self-defence.) To be clear I have never been a victim of any of the above and in every other area of my life I am confident and at peace.

My point is that my male enlightened friends do not have these same feelings of vulnerability and we have had many good discussions about the differences. 

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Sir stevie steve (1) (@TRIPLES) 6 years ago ago

True, I’m finding it hard to find an enlightened spouse too. Although I’m not  giving up I think it’s really taking too long so much that I’m losing interest in this quest

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Xadious (17) (@ZachTheReliable) 6 years ago ago

Yadda yadda something about love finds you

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Kw (0) (@[email protected]) 6 years ago ago

En lightment comes in many forms… Faith is not an emotion, faith is linked with trust, emotion  well let’s look at the word it self    E – Motion  science told us that E :  Energy  so emotion is energy in motion….. Enlightenment also comes with life experience perhaps you are not ment  to find such a person, because you need to meet someone and grow and learn from each other to become enlightened together. As partners or companions we are all here to learn from each other. 

The yiin and yang all about balancing your masculine and feminine within yourself not allowing either to control but to be balanced to find an equilibrium.

oh to be enlightened   …..

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Kw (0) (@[email protected]) 6 years ago ago

you said you were looking for an enlightened woman …….you did not say you were looking for love…. I will say that when you are enlightened you will then understand what the word Love truly means. rise to love rather than fall in love… A enlightened person male or female would understand this 

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Cameron (0) (@Cameron-Mitchell) 5 years, 11 months ago ago

My theory (which is a belief so I am not strongly attached to it) is that males are more likely to experience the sudden awakening of ego death as a response to self-loathing, aka the Ekhart Tolle experience, while females are more inclined to gradual enlightenment which is less dramatic as a story but by no means less significant or less likely to occur. Unfortunately this is reflected in relative suicide statistics. This brings up the obvious point that awakening is an excellent alternative to suicide of course.

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Cameron (0) (@Cameron-Mitchell) 5 years, 11 months ago ago

Also the enlightened will choose to continue to create a self if they wish to continue engagement with “others”. The difference is the realisation that self and other are inseparable can not be forgotten and so the self experience is not created to pursue worldly acquisition but is created out of compassion and playfulness. Your partner does not need to be enlightened to be loving and loved.

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Anjelica (101) (@Anjelica) 5 years, 10 months ago ago

My experience is that when you know you deserve and believe that what you need is coming to you, it does. 

seeking “enlightened” significant other is very vague though. What is it about an enlightened person that you want? The more clarity you have about who to attract the more compatible they’ll be. 

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