girls and head games

Tine (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago

hello ladies, i have a question and i do not mean to make anyone uncomfortable with it, but considering the anonymous format a website provides, i figured this would be a good place to ask,

when you ladies are… ‘going down’, what is running through your mind?

lets pretend i am asking you about a time when you actually liked the guy, then pretend like i am asking about a time when you didn’t really care or like the guy,

see, as a man, i know what i’m thinking while being given the amazing gift you girls offer, but i don’t know what you’re thinking, though, based on the usual and effect of most experiences i’ve had, i’d say whatever it is is nice,

but, as i write that, i can think of how a negative motivator, such as insecurity, might effect what’s on the mind and how this translates to the sliding action,

so, lets hear from you, i’m not looking to be a dick or try to embarrass, but please only reply if you are truly comfortable with the topic and do not mind graphic language,

February 7, 2013 at 7:26 pm
Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@heatherrwhitmore,

hrmm, i agree, when the opposite is true, this is what i am thinking as well, i enjoy how they squirm and how their eyes roll back, i say this not to brag about to prowess, but to show i getcha, what i have seen is that with girls that really get into head games they do so because they are pleasing them, seeing a physical response, and they understand they are causing it,

basically, the harder they work, whether it be intimate or messy, the more they are turned on,

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heather (1) (@heatherrwhitmore) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@tine, lol….yes

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@beyond,

very good question, one i wonder myself, people don’t even seem to communicate during intercourse and wonder why the experience was meh, especially if its the first time, you need to learn the other person, therefore you just need to ask.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@mentalkink,

i agree, i think dropping into the moment requires a good level of emotional confidence though, something a lot of people have trouble doing, in regards to this, i’ve discovered since dropping porn from my life i’ve been able to drop into the moment easier and easier,

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@beniandtheuniverse,

“hoping I won’t gag (how unsexy)”

what?! man, i can’t speak for all men, but when a girl gags that means she has lost control of herself and ‘doing work’, i’m never forceful less asked to be, meaning she is not gagging because of anything i am doing, her gag is out of enthusiasm, and this thought turns me on, the more messy and into it she gets, the more i enjoy

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@anjelica,

yea, it really does put the spotlight on you to perform well, going down on girls i want them to be pleased and not twiddling their thumbs, being with people i am connected with always made it more free, and this is also a safeguard too, keeps the partners down.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@birdflyinghigh,

uh ya, for sure, your ULTIMATE WEAPON, nothing makes a man feel more appreciated than to look down at a pair of eyes looking up… =D

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@ARCANUS,

“good as possible makes me feel as good as possible, and vice versa. The end.”

well said

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@kidd,

i agree, and exploring more sensual areas that are not directly related to the act itself, and being able to get off, only enhances the act, you are aware of so much more, i’m looking into tantric atm

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@theskafish,

i see your point, and to a degree, i think you are right, a lot of guys use it as a way of dominance, ‘yea! that bitch sucked my dick! yea! (high fives bros), and i think there are a lot of girls that realize this and might do it for that reason, because they know the man wants it, so they can sink their claws in, but i think in a truly intimate setting, and by this, i don’t mean a significant relationship, i mean, any person who you care about and they you, intimate, safe,

in this setting, oral sex enhances, expands, and evolves sex beyond anything you thought possible, its a ‘willing submission’ on their part to please, same with our oral pleasuring and what the act says about our willing submission.

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TheSkaFish (962)M (@theskafish) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@tine, yea, exactly. I guess before this discussion, that’s exactly how it seemed to me. The idea of a girl going down on a guy seemed more like an expression of male dominance rather than love. But I guess it all depends on the context….no need to be a bro about it.

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pat (169) (@epath) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

Ask your girlfriend/lover. Not every woman is the same as you can see from above responses.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@theskafish,

sometimes they just want to give some, they offer to do it… omg, thats the best…

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Tine (366) (@tine) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@epath,

agreed, i love seeing all the different perspectives this topic has brought out, people are freely talking about a taboo subject,

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Kat (0) (@sp1k3d) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

@tine,
I’m a girl and I still don’t understand why other girls do it. Every time I’ve gone down on a guy I’ve had to entertain myself in my head the entire time, which generally kills my mood. Usually I do it simply because I know he likes it and I figure if I want him to go down on me its only fair if I do the same.

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Alex (345) (@staylucky) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

Any girl that likes to gobble knobs is A-OK in my books.

I personally love nothing more than strapping a chicks snooch to my face and going to town.

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Tobias Valdemar Broe Knudsen (92) (@2bias) 8 years, 11 months ago ago

I can very much follow the logic of what girls get out of it. I think it applies to men as well, Perhaps with less emphasis on the dominance/control part, but I definitely get a kick out of getting a girl off. I think it’s a matter of instinct and also the chronic lack of acceptance. When you go down on someone or do anything that they enjoy, it sort of confirms your entire person – you are good at this, the most fundamental part of life except for death. On a side note though, I actually prefer vaginal sex to oral sex, it just stimulates more, maybe because it’s just made for that act. I don’t know, could be I just haven’t received a proper bj yet haha :D

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