I have experienced many times that when my life is going uphill and i am improving in every aspect and you know that moment when life feels good, a GIRL out of no where comes into my life and in one way or another i get sucked into this Trans-like dream and i steer away from my life’s focus and i start to like them or slowly fall for them, Which then i get hurt somehow and i go threw this “recovery” process, which makes me grow and understand things better and get a grip on whats worth running after.
Now, these girls always after a while try to recontact me after we haven’t talked for like ever, and i get caught in the “trap”, but i am stronger now and i usually don’t reply or contact them back and move on with my life, which turned out not to be such a bad decision.
Now i have these two questions:
1. Does this happen to you guys too, and how do you deal with it?
2. A girl i had something going on with a few months back tried to recontact me and after she incidentally saw me going running, I deleted her number from my phone a while back and i did recognize the number, yet i acted as if i couldn’t remember her cause, i didn’t really want to… Now i am not in love with her or anything, but yet i do want someone to be around, as more than just friends, but i feel i will only get hurt(i fuck it up most of the times) and i will have to waste my time on this girl… and it drags me back from me reaching my life’s goals.
In your opinion, should i try to recontact her back or am i on the right path and i should keep chasing my dreams and not look back?
Thank you for reading this, and have a great day!