Is it even possible to be just friends with someone that you have fallen so madly in love with that it breaks you down into tears to leave for college, and every time your with him and his straight friends you only feel like the back up, or the tool? Everything I do feels like a joke like i am just making a fool of myself and he is just putting up with it because were friends…
@shoot991, First; is he gay? Don’t set yourself up for disappointment, that isn’t a healthy habit to get into.
If he is gay then it may take some time for him to be comfortable with that, and you both have to set your futures up to be able to have a real chance.
People dump their education because they want to be with someone, it happens all the time, but then they end up having too many hardships for their relationship to stand on its own anyway, and that could destroy it also.
So I say you have to be practical, do the hard yards and your relationship will either survive or you move on, but you are young, it doesn’t take away your feelings but it means you have a world full of opportunities for happiness, one way or another. So fight for what you want but don’t let it stop you from being pragmatic and respect his choices also, it isn’t all about you.