Lets say your a 24 year old guy with this huge hearts in your eyes. How do you realize the other person wants to see them there for her?
I’ve found with my experiences with girls, they need to be lured in like a cat with a toy feather. At this point we know the cat likes playing with these feathers, so in theory the cat should always be interested in feathers whenever it sees one. But this isn’t the case. If he’s prowling around the house, doing his normal thing and sees a lifeless feather on the floor, he’ll simply walk past it without giving it a moments notice. This shows that the feather needs some life added to it for it to become interesting to our feline friend.
You need to become interesting in his eyes. You may look at yourself and think ‘I am a pretty little feather that any cat would be lucky to play with’. But if theirs nothing to entice the cat, you will simply be overlooked.
Now call it luring, or flirting; whatever you want. It’s the chase that people need to become emotionally connected to you. I personally think that for someone to become interested in you, you need to make them interested in you. The balls in your court, not theirs.
Think of yourself like an advert. Advertising companies spend millions thinking of ways their brand sticks in your brain so you’re left thinking of them days/months after you’ve seen their advert. Now i do not mean dress like a slut to get his attention – THIS IS THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO – but challenge him mentally, tell him funny stories, make him laugh, and most importantly laugh with him! It’s this emotional connection everyones after. Not the girl with the hot bod.