The reason I want to start this conversation is because I’m sure that everyone has a different perspective on it. The hardships that everyone has faced and the decisions that they themselves made that they regret or wish they had done differently, or seen the consequences of in others, thee things things can provide a means to learn.
Okay one thing that I have realised ruins your life is waiting for other people to look after you. You can be waiting for such a long time and it can be futile and the time and energy spent waiting is time that you could be using to look after yourself.
The next thing is putting your life on hold. Some people put their life on hold in hopes of coming back to it at some point in the same way you would a phonecall, the problem with this is that it can leave years un-lived and leaves you regretful.it can come from experience hunting. You hunt for an experience instead of living life and so you begin living for single point in time instead of your life as it is.
Any thoughts or ideas are appreciated thanks :)
Stop regretting stuff. Don’t be fooled into believing that you actually have complete control of your life, cause in the end you don’t. Every day we act, but we have no way of knowing the outcome of our actions. We can guess based on our previous experience, but in the end it’s only guesswork.