I struggle to connect with people sometimes, im scared of smearing my shit onto them so avoid any sort of connection. are there any methods for connecting with people.
in your personal experience, what works well .
It’s actually gratifying for others to absorb your pain for you if you are brave enough to share your shit. Lots of people are strong enough to do it and exchange healing love. Some are not though and that’s okay. I like to connect with people by wearing my emotions on my face and adoring the fuck out of everyone’s beauty
Sometimes I had a little hate to people, because I don’t know how to connect with then. I have been a long time of my life alone, because I was shy, scared, and others bad social thinkings.
But recently, I figured out, that sometimes, there are opportunities that you can talk to people without so much fear, like they’re more opened than other times. Opportunities like events, volunteering, and so on. Go to meeting that match your interest, and when you start talking and interacting with people like you, you’re going to seize the opportunities to talk with them.
The more you practice interactions, the more you’re going to connect with people, in your own way! (that will make you a unique person, to interact with).