I like this one girl. We aren’t friends. Nor do we see each other everyday. I tried not to think about it. I tried to distract myself from thinking of her, avoiding her, looking for her cons, and looking for interests in other things/people. I’ve tried a lot of methods on the Internet but nothing has worked. Any advice?
The only thing getting you down is your expectations of what should happen because you like her. Expectations man, the killer. You can’t just ‘stop liking someone’…it does not work. So in my experience, like I said, the only thing to do is enjoy it.
Nope. You.can’t.stop.it. There is nothing you can do to force a change like that. Long term absence is generally the only thing that works because the mind is good at creating distractions. But getting rid of someone from your life whos company you enjoy seems a little silly do you not think? I mean, I dunno, I got used to liking and loving people a while ago. Shit’s fun now (for the most part).
Use that like to fuel you dude, im telling you. im 100% progressive when i like a bueatiful girl, especially if she is awsome. i read that she is with your friend, so dont try to attract her or anything. Use that huge creative energy and make other beautiful girls like you, you dont necessarily have to like them back right away, but if your compatible you will. Enjoy spending time around her, live and dont put too much pressure on yourself trying to predict the future. Although 4 years is quite a lot of time so their must be something special about this girl, my advice: use probability to remove that “special” thing. Ask your self 2 questions. 1) how many females in your age group exists today? (you dont have to limit yourself either, just dont be a pedophile) and 2) how many have you met yet?…. work on improving yourself and your quality of life. Sorry for rambling, my closing quote, “water seeks its own level”. Goodluck bruh