I want to leave my home ,my Parents torture me Emotionally..Help ?
i am 22 years old, Graduate from New Delhi….and right now i have 73,555 ruppes in my bank account, i can pursue some higher study or can do a job in call centre, whatever i will do my life will have more freedom….it could be tough but still…better than to tolerate emotional pain and ruff language of parents daily…i also suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder and i am extremely Hypersenstive….even a small commet or a joke can make me suffer a lot…i am not emotionally tough..and there is always an sort of emptiness or emotional pain which i cannot describe in words..
please help me……i had tolerated the torture so many times before also….but now it is enough and i want to move on…
@sansan, Thanks brother a lot, u are 1000% right, man naturally knows how to produce babies but not how to raise them, and i think animals do there jobs better and leaving there babies after care and affection and set them free, whereas human parents cling to there kids for rest of the life, try to dominate and control them for rest of there life,there kids and partner..
@ballsackturtles23, u are right dear, your points about wrestling and judo are right,but u are not able to falsify what i am saying, i am also right in a way, there are many practical life examples where an boxer and a wrestler and somone greater in raw strength had just destroyed an wushu or taekwondo player…why we have weight catergories in boxing and martial arts? i prove my point earlier….
your points about kickboxing are right, and since it have also all sorts of punches, uppercut,hook,cross and they are similar to boxing, i can learn kickboxing, it is near my home,spark kickboxing academy, and they charge about 1000 ruppes per month.
Thanks brother a lot again…
@arunmehta1986, Thanks brother anuj a lot, yeah u are right, major cause of BPD is invalidating environment of a kid….concern is there but it does,t mean one should use ruff language and shoud speak extremely harsh words and to hurt somomeone emotionally like hell….i just leave home few days back and go at Shahjahanpur my grand father place,for a change, just return last night….will leave home after my Philosophy exams in may permanently….
reagarding girlfriend i was never dumped , 7 months back i have gf , i left her due to various reasons, i am single right now….
Reagarding Gym and Mental attitude u are right, for a fight what is required a part from strength and speed is heart…
on leaving home u are right…..
i read too much stuff about those Philosophers u mentioned, it is part of my MA Philosophy syllabus….i can give u some Philosophy books free of cost if u desire….
regarding Magic mushrooms u are right, it depends on the setting, depress will make u 10 times more depress, happy will make u 10 times more happy, read about john hopkins university experiment with psilocybin and subjects reports mystical experience, and long term positive changes in moods and behaviour…
@ballsackturtles23, Anuj is right , when u are emotionally stable it will not fuck your world east coast, it will make u 10 times more happier, at higher doses ego dissolution can also occur, with a sense of unity with the universe, it also cure ocd and depression………if u are depress and will take it, it will fuck your world and will make u 10 times more depress east coast musician..please read about John Hopkins university experiment with Psilocybin Drug,
Thanks Bo, due to u, i am finally joining kickboxing classses, due to your motivation and they way u convince me..thanks dear
@molly123,Thanks Molly a lot, yeah the major danger is if u leave home and one of the parents died, u will feel guilty for rest of your life, moreover my Psycho, narcassictic mother also suffer from heart disease…..regarding your being book worm, if u need some good Philosophy books, hindi novels, biographies, i can give u free of cost…take care
@doglover09, Do not think pessimistically! Have you watched the movie Secret? Watch it..It is all about being positive and how your life changes. Trust me..Have faith and all will be okay :)
As for books..I have a library at my home and it is stocked full. Thanks for your offer anyways :)
hello i am 16 yrs old. i am from new delh and i want to leave my house kyuki m ek sportsman banna chahta hu par mere parents mujhe padhne ke liye force krte h aur m sports ke liye kuch bhi kr skta hu apna ghar tk chod skta hu to dono sath m ghar chode pls rply kr dena
Hey Anonymous (@)…. i know exactly what ur going thru. i am 23 old lady who is stuck in the same torture situation. i graduated from delhi too. my parents have constantly fucked me emotinally. i knw when u say torture. its just not torture but infact way more shitt going on but i am emotionally tuff. i hd broken down mny times fiting and fiting with my parents but i nvr gave up, thanks to supporting frnds. my prnts jus wont gt it, ol they evry want is to stay their slaves till they die. it went to a point that i needed psychiatric help. The only advice i got was to move out, live on ur own. God jus gives every1 1 life…dnt waste for any1. i wasted almost 18yrs of my life tryin to prove my prnts that i am good normal kid, but they nvr understood and olwys neglected my feelings and desires. during college yrs in delhi i strted smoking pot and drinkin as i wud forget the shiitt i go thru at home evryday. till now i do…the only reson i am surviving i still live with them but i am tryin vry soon to move out. i have job…i earn fine. u jus need a little courage to move out and live with watevr life has to offer u. Theres no use of living with parents and they treating u like douche bag. I knw life would b vry beautiful for me 1nce i move out. emotional damage vl haunt u even when u sleep. i cnt think straight..nvr hd the god relationship with any man cz ol the emotional issues i go thru. It jus feels that u gtin sucked in a dark black hole. i would actually advice to move out only if ur sure that moving away from ur prnts would b betr and they wont irritate or give emotional shitt again. i am replying aftr an yr of ur post. cz i am sick of this damaged life and tryin to figure out that m i the only 1, guess there alot :P. just want to knw hw did ur life in the past 1 yr. did u actually move out?? cz i tryin to move out and c where wud life take me.
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<font color=”#82868e”>I’m a 16 year old boy from jordan, I’ve never been in trouble, I have really good grades, I’ve never disrespected my parents, but i do mistake I’m a teenager and mots of all I’m human. Me and my family recently moved to canada a couple of months ago. My family doesnt fit in to the culture as they are very religious, but i do fit in. I came to Canada against my will, i was really happy back home, but i was forced by my parents. At that point I really wanted to run away, but i had no way to go, or no money. So i decided to make a deal, the deal was that in Canada they would be normal parents,(giving me money, understanding, not so conservative) and they agreed. But ever since we reached Canada they haven’t been letting me go out, and even if they do let me they give me barely enough money and I have to back early. All my life I have sensed that my parents don’t love me, we never talk, they never hug me not kiss me. I have always sensed a difference between the way they treated my brother and the way they treated me, but I kept quiet. But it really hurts when they acctually say it, when they sa remarks that sense me that im unwanted and just a burdon. I feel like my parents are just stuck with me. Today, i got kicked out of the house just because I was late. Both my parents knew that at this date I was gonna go to a concert an hour away and they knew the time it started and they were okay with it. I payed for the concert with my own money, so i really was excited. During the concert my mom kept calling me and asking when I was coming back. Then she called and said come back home now your father is angry, this has happened before. So i left the concert which I wasted my entire savings on, to catch a train. The nearest train was in 40 mins, so I told my mom and dad, so I just hear my dad saying that I shouldn’t come back home, and that if I come back he’ll beat me, then kick me out and lock the door. I had nowhere to go as I barely know anyone in Canada, we dont have family. I headed home anyways. I got home my grandfather relaxed my dad, and I went to my room shaking. Now I’m being cut off ( they gave me no food no water no money) I have no money cuz i spent it all on the concert. And I was at the risk of being kicked out any minute. I cannot work, as we live very far, and there’s nobody to drop me off. Now, my whole family hates me, my parents ruined the chances of me making friends. I wish that they gave me a clear rule that i crossed, but no i did nothing like that. I really dont know what to do, nor where to go, but i have to find a soloution, as my life is unbearable. </font>