I broke his trust, and I don’t know if this is permanent. I feel like I’ve apologized many times. Sometimes I feel like we are stronger than we were before, and sometimes I feel like he questions whether he wants to be in a relationship with me, not because he doesn’t love me, but because he may feel like I don’t love him as much as i say i do, or that I might cheat again. I don’t blame him for feeling like this, and i f it’s up to me, I’m not giving up. I’m not sure if he is sure about us. He just feel unimportant.
I want to make things better but I feel like I’ve done my damage and should just wait, because at this point its up to him to determine what becomes of us.
How can I help eradicate the unimportant feeling he gets?
How can I make this better?
I know I’m a fuck up, so if that’s what you’re going to say, don’t, but besides that, What do you guys think?
Yes but it’s really difficult. Whatever happens from now on will affected by the infidelity. Some positive, some negative. You guys really need to do a LOT of talking to see if it can be salvaged because if it can’t you both need to find that out as soon as is reasonably possible…
you need to truly feel sorry for what you did and then, somehow, convey that to him. you can’t manufacturer a deep apology, mind you. it’s either there or it isn’t. your deep apology will convey your need for him and will sooth him. watch the movie “In a World” on netflix and you’ll get what i mean regarding a deep apology.