Is it possible to save a relationship after someone has cheated?

 DontMindMe (@DontMindMe)6 years, 6 months ago

I broke his trust, and I don’t know if this is permanent. I feel like I’ve apologized many times. Sometimes I feel like we are stronger than we were before, and sometimes I feel like he questions whether he wants to be in a relationship with me, not because he doesn’t love me, but because he may feel like I don’t love him as much as i say i do, or that I might cheat again. I don’t blame him for feeling like this, and i f it’s up to me, I’m not giving up. I’m not sure if he is sure about us. He just feel unimportant.

I want to make things better but I feel like I’ve done my damage and should just wait, because at this point its up to him to determine what becomes of us.

How can I help eradicate the unimportant feeling he gets?
How can I make this better?
I know I’m a fuck up, so if that’s what you’re going to say, don’t, but besides that, What do you guys think?

December 10, 2014 at 1:56 pm
Alex (551) (@hollowinfinity) 6 years, 6 months ago ago

Why did you cheat to begin with?

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DontMindMe (0) (@DontMindMe) 6 years, 6 months ago ago

@hollowinfinity A combination of I listened to my friends at the time, and I thought we were going to break up

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Alex (551) (@hollowinfinity) 6 years, 6 months ago ago

Sounds like you need to do some soul searching. You can’t live your life based so heavily on others. You know right from wrong. Follow your intuition.

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DontMindMe (0) (@DontMindMe) 6 years, 6 months ago ago

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Astralian (2) (@Astralian) 6 years, 6 months ago ago

Yes but it’s really difficult. Whatever happens from now on will affected by the infidelity. Some positive, some negative. You guys really need to do a LOT of talking to see if it can be salvaged because if it can’t you both need to find that out as soon as is reasonably possible…

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MrMarm (2) (@mrmarm) 6 years, 6 months ago ago

you need to truly feel sorry for what you did and then, somehow, convey that to him. you can’t manufacturer a deep apology, mind you. it’s either there or it isn’t. your deep apology will convey your need for him and will sooth him. watch the movie “In a World” on netflix and you’ll get what i mean regarding a deep apology.

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