Just need some advice.

 Paola (@paolavecuriosidad) 7 years, 10 months ago

What’s up everyone. So about three weeks ago, I met this guy. Amazing human being. We had an instant connection, hung out a ton, and were having something good going. Meanwhile, a friend who i went out of my way to befriend is on the sidelines, happy for me. She always asked about him and was always super excited about him and I. Until, one day she suddenly decides that he is not right for me and decides to advise me against seeing him.. She just “can’t put her finger on it”. Next day, I take her to a party, and she leaves abruptly. Next morning I discover she met up with him and they hooked up.

Whatever, that’s besides the point.
I was lied to by a friend. He is dead to me now, but her. I confronted her immediately, told her im ending our friendship, and blocked her in every way possible. Now, the days are passing by and he texts me: “Do you hate me now?” To which i respond: No. I just realized you aren’t the kind of person I want in any part of my life.

to which he responds

ANd now im sitting here confused out of my fucking mind.

Did I act too rashly? Do I have a right to be mad?
How the fuck am I not supposed to be hurt by all of this?
Im just going fucking insane and would appreciate someone’s input.

December 11, 2013 at 9:14 pm
josephm (772) (@josephm) 7 years, 10 months ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, this happened to me too. my friend kept telling me bro, she has sooo many friends, i dont think she ‘this that and the other’ etc etc etc. for ever since i was talking to her. i also gave her my friends number so we could meet up when we were trying to party. i finally decide to just stop interacting with her because she turned into the wicked witch of the west and the next day little did i know she appears at my house with my friend (roommate) while i was still in remission of what was between us. i explodeddddd. but they ended up being a good couple for each other, and now i have two friends instead of one.

Paola (25) (@paolavecuriosidad) 7 years, 10 months ago ago

Wow that is quite similar. I just can’t imagine how you did that after he lied to you. Like, he lied to you. I just can’t past that part. Trust is so important…
Seems like they will be right for each other, I guess. But i just can’t see myself being friends with either one of the liars.
Man, you’re strong

josephm (772) (@josephm) 7 years, 10 months ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, he was scared to hurt my feelings(for a week or two or three lol come on.). i was definitely in the “its not about her, its about how this all came to be” boat.

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