Well to make a long story short, I met this girl talked to her, got her number we talked we instantly clicked we talked for over 5 hours straight…so time went on and I fell in live i dont know how but it happened..cupid shot me like a top of the line sniper I had no chance so eventually things went sour she wasn’t feeling me how I was feeling her and she broke things off with me but the question i’d like to ask is why do I after 5 months of not seeing and not wanting her still feel the magnetism towards her when she hurt me so bad? Please as always share your own stories if you will…
@man-of-the-future, lol not getting what you want makes sometimes that you want it even more, even when time passes by..if she broke off with you, it will stay with you longer than when you broke off with her..maybe you think she was the right person for you, especially because you didnt get the chance to prove to yourself that she wasnt the right person, by being in a relationship with her and finding out it really wouldnt work for example.
dreaming of the things that never were makes you stick to her, lol, its addictive. i dont think it is love, because that would be mutual, it is more an emotion like being in love with the image you have of her, most of the time people have good and bad qualities, so if you only see the good side, it is not that realistic, it is more a dream image you love..
You already know why, your title shows me you do.
Because meth cravings still exist years later, just like other powerful drugs. She invoked some intense emotional (read: chemical) reactions. There is a void. Fill that void with something of equal strength. I would suggest another woman or some creative project, though the former would be more potent.
You know that saying “There are other fish in the sea”
Well, there are other drugs in the pharmacy.
And I don’t mean pick up the needle or the bottle. But you might what to pick up the mushrooms.