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Equel (@equel) 8 years, 9 months ago

one can only know what they had after it is gone.
perhaps while you had it you thought that you knew,
but it is ignorance.
this is proven to me in the experience of being ignorant.
and realizing i was ignorant-
and thats when i left.
only to realize i was right all along.

February 25, 2013 at 9:12 am
Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

You described a complete idiot taking life for granted. Congratulations, brother.

Fuck this site.

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Alex (345) (@staylucky) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@equel, Been there, done that.

On one side it still upsets me, but it was only after I walked away that I began to awaken. Had I stayed, I’d most likely still be the same complete idiot taking life for granted, as @beyond, put it.

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Zykanthos (4,757)M (@chodebalm) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@beyond, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvfJUabGTfE#t=0m38s – I think that’s really what you mean.

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@chodebalm, That’s really pathetic. Feeling sad?

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the.kiid.olw (23) (@kiidishsounds) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@beyond you just epitomized everything that is wrong with american culture. congratulations asshole.

try to help the world. not kill it.

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Zykanthos (4,757)M (@chodebalm) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@beyond, Haha! No bro, just an observation. I mean honestly, this site is whatever you make of it – just like anything else in life. And apparently you hate it, yet you’re here. Just seems like you may resent your life or whatever opinions you have of it.

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@kiidishsounds, That didn’t make any sense. I really have nothing to do with American culture so I guess you’re speaking in riddles.

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the.kiid.olw (23) (@kiidishsounds) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@beyond don’t play dumb. perhaps my relationship was mis-spoken but we don’t play semantics. if you understand the faults of another person it’s because you were once there so help them or shut the fuck up.

why would you inbreed hate on an already confused mind?

#riddlethatshit

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@chodebalm, I actually love the site. I just don’t like stupid. There have been a lot of “are you seriously saying that” posts here lately, so I guess it’s full with kids thinking a deep thought is lacking any kind of humor. And the worst part is, people are responding to them with kiss-assing acceptance. Well, I have standards. I actually like this post, though, that’s why I replied to it. :)

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@kiidishsounds, I inbreed hate with one post? Nice overexaggeration. I am not playing dumb. I’m not American or live in America, you’re talking out of your ass. Help who? No one needs help on this thread. Maybe you do.

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Alex (345) (@staylucky) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@beyond, No one says everything on here has to be kissassy, but if you want to give someone a reality check then why don’t you do it in a manner that isn’t condescending or demeaning? You know, actually being helpful? I didn’t disagree with you when you said the complete idiot taking life for granted thing because I think there is truth to it. But why not actually formulate something constructive instead of belittling someone who clearly hasn’t had the same experiences or insight as you yet. You assume that you are talking to an adult, when the truth is you have no idea about who these people really are or the extent of what they have gone through. What if you’re taking the piss out of a 15 year old kid? Or someone who has lost a loved one due to death? Reading a few lines on a web forum doesn’t mean you automatically know what their story’s all about. You seem to have a rather unhealthy desire for attracting reactions on here. That or it’s just a total fucking coincidence that you seem to constantly be arguing with someone.

It’s just a shame because you’re clearly fucking smart and occasionally very insightful when you feel like it. You seem to be a cool guy, it’s just a shame that you choose to spend a good portion of your time on here acting like a tool and not actually using what appears to be some worldly knowledge to more regular and effective use.

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Edward Bernays (131) (@edwardbernays) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

Man I love it when people get rattled at @beyond‘s comments

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@staylucky, You got me. I do talk to children like they’re adults. I really never assume age. You’re throwing away a lot of stuff I have opinion on though, do you want me to reply to what I’d say to a person who has lost someone? I can’t see how this is relevant here. I don’t know if you realize it well yet, but getting real reactions from people instead of filling their heads with well-thought advice and lecturing isn’t real help. And I always laugh at people thinking someone is condescending to them because when I was a kid I didn’t take shit from no one too. If you find a way of explaining how is that bad, I’d really appreciate it. Meanwhile, everyone can say whatever they want and act like whoever they want to be, I just have this crazy idea that people on the internet are not as sincere, if they are, it shows. I’m attracting those people on this site too.

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the.kiid.olw (23) (@kiidishsounds) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@beyond i realize you’re from Bulgaria. that’s why i retracted the statement.

i just can’t understand why you hurt before you help. that was the depth of my argument. but i stopped caring. @staylucky put it very well. get some love on your side. hope you find some kind of peace someday so you don’t have to get your yips off of these kind of arguments.

and @equel i’m not trying to victimize you. keep on the right track kid and keep seeing the world in healthier lights. you don’t even know the beauty of what you’re beginning.

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@kiidishsounds, It’s really amusing actually that people are quick to judge. I like messing around with people like that, especially those who encourage naivety. :) And the way some people reply to me here, just like you, communicating like you know who you’re talking to and how much love I have on my side? On a side* note, I don’t think I can either help or hurt anyone, the only thing a person can do is choose what to pay attention to. I think the main reason you’re irritated by this, and the others who responded to me is because they are confused and afraid of staying in that mind state. I can’t say I am confused, therefore something non-confusing and quite blunt seemed like a better approach than presuming. I do care though. Otherwise I’d stop caring like you that the bullshit keeps piling.

All I’m saying is actually related to the original post. Now I love it even more.

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the.kiid.olw (23) (@kiidishsounds) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@beyond i think you and i both know that people should be questioned mercilessly in their comfort zones. you’re correct. that will be the only way they grow. it is extremely healthy to push people towards a new cognizance. the main problem we are having here is that as @staylucky put it (and you even admitted), you don’t know where they’re at in life (and neither do i). but negative connotations, no matter the speakers intentions, can carry large weights attached to them. as you said, i have no idea how much love you have on your side. but to hear that you instigate these arguments everywhere means one of two things: one) you are a person who has found his ‘truth’ through this method and this is how you choose to spread concept and (invariably in my words) love throughout the world, or two) you do not in-fact have a loving bone in your body and have a deeply seated anger you haven’t confronted and this is thereby controlling your “conscious questioning” scapegoating logic as a viable reason for such activity.

i could care less which reason it is. but i hope that you realize you’re not the only person in this world and that your words and actions DO have a ripple effect on everybody they touch. that is beauty to me. but perhaps you see this as something else.

and as a collective it is our duty to aid other’s in their pursuit of freedom and truth. if this is how you choose to do it, fine. i’ve got nothing left to say. but it was the second option i first assumed and subsequently the assumption that i’ll continue to hold until YOU tell me differently.

if we are like minds with different methods i wish you all the best. for we are all different people. but if you are only doing this with spotty intentions i’ll hold to my guns.

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KevinSG (105) (@flyingrhino) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

This is just @beyond, ‘s version of real talk. He has no social filter, he is how he wants to be and doesn’t adjust for other people.

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the.kiid.olw (23) (@kiidishsounds) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@flyingrhino so i’m sure he’s had this exact conversation many times before then? much thanks. i’ll stop inspiring his ruse

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@kiidishsounds, I don’t think I have to convince you of anything. Everyone has anger about something or could get angry at something. And everyone has love in his bones. If you’re afraid of my intentions, why thinking holding to your guns is going to help me? That’s why I said you’re not making any sense. How do you call a major part of people assholes, but talk about doing good in the world? And I do realize very well that you’re not the only one lying to himself, therefore my thoughts on truth without being a bitch about it.

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Taylor (152) (@taysand) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

Though I don’t always agree with his methods, @beyond, is probably one of the most ‘real’ people on this site. So even if you greatly dislike him, ya gotta respect him! Well.. you don’t have to.. but I think he deserves it.

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Alex (345) (@staylucky) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

@beyond, I’m throwing away a lot of stuff you have an opinion on? My point exactly was that you have great opinions that you devalue when you give one sentence responses belittling people instead of actually sharing your thoughts. I can assure you this much, when you express yourself properly (positively or negatively is irrelevant) you do say a lot of real stuff.

I also agree that filling peoples heads with supposedly well thought out advice can often be counter-productive or plain irrelevant. But making someone feel stupid is no better. They are simply polar opposites.

You also raise a very good point about people on the internet not being as sincere as they make out (I have first hand experience of this with several people, and I can tell you that it was very disappointing). But you often give the impression that you’re an asshole, and the purpose of my initial post was to highlight that I don’t think you are. These things work both ways. Being super blunt with people may conflict with those that preach happy lovey dovey crap but it doesn’t validate you anymore. It simply makes you stand out on this specific site.

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Equel (11) (@equel) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

if there is one thing that i can take
is that one can never make a mistake
in that they may make
but be easily mistaken

you have created conflict on me

how ignorant-

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Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 9 months ago ago

This thread reminds me why I delete idiots from my facebook sometimes and why I I don’t want to be friends with some people in the first place. It’s so unbelievable when I explain why. :D

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