Numbing Yourself

bRAINfART (@whotheneighbors) 8 years, 10 months ago

Boy meets girl.
Gril is funny and sexy.
Boy and girl have good chemistry (he thinks so)
Boy hooks up with girl.


Then comes a time where the boy has two choices….

(1) start to like this girl and hope she likes him back


(2) Boy can decide to numb himself, try not to think about the girl, and pretend like nothing happened. Cut his feelings of love and passion off temporarily until he knows that the girl likes him.

Now the question is….Do you believe this is a good method when it comes to relationships? Do you think this is a bad idea? what do you think “numbing” yourself can lead to? Will like the person less after the period, or will the subconscious anticipation spark up something miraculous?

January 21, 2013 at 7:36 pm
dr. hamsa (42) (@s7221919) 8 years, 10 months ago ago

Don’t be afraid of your feelings or rejection. In fact don’t be afraid of anything. Live love and inspire with no regrets even if things don’t go your way. We are not meant to be in complete control anyway. Do this and you will have complete confidence in yourself, and people will be attracted to your energy.

Matthew (1,127) (@ojai) 8 years, 10 months ago ago

@whotheneighbors, I wish relationships didn’t even have this problem. We should just be able to tell eachother how we feel. People nowadays are convinced that there has to be certain ways to act towards another person when getting involved in a relationship and I think it is bullshit. Stupid mind games.

bRAINfART (8) (@whotheneighbors) 8 years, 10 months ago ago

@ojai, yes. they are stupid indeed. But sometimes you have to do them because a lot of girls are like this, especially in my generation.

bRAINfART (8) (@whotheneighbors) 8 years, 10 months ago ago

@ojai, im sorry. i dont think i made much sense there.

So from what I have noticed, a lot of girls dont like it when you come out with your feelings right away. therefore these games have to be played. but they arent that bad as you think. i think they create sexual tension, good tension that can lead to bigger and better things. However, can this come at a cost? For example, realizing you waited to long and either person has already moved on.

Anonymous (2,654) (@) 8 years, 10 months ago ago

How is this even a method? It’s a boring story with a lack of fucking communication.

Almeida (304) (@xetado) 8 years, 10 months ago ago

My very short life has told me that I should love as much as I can do, but I should too not become dependent on the relationship. I don’t know about this method, when the girl doesn’t want I just don’t care and continue my life. Isn’t it better than mourning why it didn’t work? XD

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