Problem with closeness

 msnobody (@msnobody)3 years, 4 months ago

Hi :) I have a problem with my friend. Nothing like that ever happended to me so I don’t know what to think about this nor what to do about this so I just want to know your opinion. I met this guy few months ago, we were seeing each other very often because we live nearby. He told me he fell in love with me very quickly but I didn’t feel it yet. I just told him to wait. We were acting like a couple kinda. We were really colse. Then I fell in love with him but he said that he doesn’t know what he feels anymore and he started to become distant. At first he told me to give him some time, and then that he wants to be alone for the rest of his life. He keep saying that also he says that he dont know what he wants.. but lately it haas gotten even worse. He told me that he don’t want anyone to care for him and he doesn’t want mental or physical closeness but his body language says diffenet thing.. he often cuddles me to comfort me. He says one thing and does the onther, and then he says he don’t want  that anymore. Also he says that he doesn’t want to be with me but he still wants me in his life even tho he’s really cold to me lately. I wish i could help him somehow. I know that every human wants to feel connetion and closeness with other person and I just don’t get why he’s acting like that. Maybe one of you have been in situation like that and could help me figure out what to do. 

thanks for reading and btw sorry for my english I know it’s not very good..

June 10, 2017 at 4:32 pm
moonchild (1) (@moonchild00) 3 years, 4 months ago ago

He may have some family problem or similar,or just need his own space to figure himself out.All in all,i recommend you to have a serious talk with him..

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msnobody (0) (@msnobody) 3 years, 4 months ago ago

when I try talk to him about his behaviour he says that he doesn’t have time and that he needs time to think about all of this. He just doesn’t know what he feels anymore and he keeps thinking about it and he’s even more confused..

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moonchild (1) (@moonchild00) 3 years, 4 months ago ago

Well,then there are only two solutions in my opinion.To bother him and atack him with questions util he gives you the answer you want. Or,to just leave him for a while to sort it out.It depends on your personality and closeness with him…

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