Stick your left pinky toe in her ear, and your right big toe scratching your ass, it will drive her crazy.
Don’t think about anything else while you’re doing it. Don’t worry about your performance. Completely get lost in it and give yourself. Smooth is better than abrupt. Feel your partner’s breathing. Heavy is good.
-Don’t jam your ween in a dry hole- it causes looseness and it also hurts for the girl =[
-Don’t have sex with a half-boner- it can cause breakage in the penis that makes it so after time the penis won’t fully erect it’s self.
-Don’t jam your chode in all the way right of the bat, the vagina does stretch and lengthen but it needs to be warmed up first.
-The vagina can be stimulated many ways, on the outside (clitoris & labia) and inside (g-spot!!)
-The penis is sensitive in other places other than the tip! Work the shaft high and low and don’t forget the gravy squirters. Also the taint for some guys (even the ass, it has LOADS of nerve endings and the prostate can also be stimulated which can lead to an INSTAGASM! anal sex is deff better for men)
-Go pee before and after sex to prevent bladder infections, and WASH YOUR DAMN HANDS! Before and after too.
-Even if she says she’s on birth control use a condom
-Use AT LEASE four different positions in each sexual romp
-Don’t be confined to the bedroom, but be respectful
-Use your hands as well as your genitals simultaneously to stimulate each other (eg, rubbing your female partners clit while doing her, or rubbing your male partners shaft/scrotum while doing them)
-Makeout and bang
your partner’s body is filled with nerves so there are erogenus zones to be explored, that the ma r ma not have been aware of the existence of, so treat that body as more than a sexual object go on an “Adventure” and explore it
What I find gives me the best times is when we are really relaxed about it, set a good mood and we mostly just hang out and talk and share ideas and feelings and here and there a little bit of touching and a little bit of undressing. Its more like we’re hanging out and some assortment of sexual acts is just a part of it.
You’d be surprised at the kind of conversations you can have during 69.
When each person goes at it wanting to satisfy themselves, on equal levels, so it’s almost like a power struggle throughout.
Those times are good.
Or when you devote your entire energy to the other person, then vice versa–also good.
Combining both of these in one sitting. Best.
Don’t worry about doing anything during sex. Just be intuitive toward the others’ level of ecstacy, do what escalates yours, and explore. Each sexual encounter is an exploration. Throw out the paradigm of maximizing physical sensation, head space is 100x more important.
i’ve always struggled with the concept of sex. my mother and father were divorced while i was young (not to boo hoo to everyone trying to get their freak on) but it seemed like my father’s want of just one woman always seemed right, at least until i was about 16. now from like 12 to 17 i was 250-180 lbs and im now 160 trying to become more physically able for many reasons, one of which being the opposite sex’s comfort with me. when i started dropping weight it was heavily vain and i was becoming addicted to the concept of using aggression and physical intimidation to win arguments (a truly dumb feature of humans that helps neither party of a debate) i was also using girls pretty badly, i am male, i would lie and cheat to become more experienced at sex and to be able to appreciate as many beautiful bodies as i could. i even experimented with some transgender and homosexual activities (rationalized in my head by not wanting to be closed minded and considering all paths sexually) and lets just say i was representing my mom’s way of life a lot. then i guess i got sick of it, one of the girls that i had used in the past i decided to give another chance to and have a faithful relationship with for a year, living with her and getting all the sex i needed. trying to force myself to be with one girl never seemed right to me and i blamed my mom at first but a more mature look at it is that half of marriages result in divorce and i wouldn’t even say that the ones that haven’t are results of better people. that being said i broke up with that girl and decided to try not having sex- what the universe gave me six months in was a virgin (i was 19 at the time she was 17) who was the most gorgeous (physically and mentally) person that i had ever seen. getting to know her while dating her on and off over a year – however – i began to yet again drift toward wanting to experience other people sexually and we got into many fights over who was just and i guess i still can’t say i was right in leaving her but i must trust my reaction to my sub conscious distaste for relationships. now that i am single i’m confused as to whether or not i should try abstinence or really what in general to do, how to feel about breaking a girl’s heart (her words, my rational mind says that its a temporary pain that was universally necessary for both of us) it would be cool if i could get someone’s opinion.
Change your language, saying cock fifteen thousand times is not sexy.
Eric Idle is here to help out:
I think you’re worrying a little too much about the details! It’s good to be open-minded about things, it’s okay to have relationships that aren’t serious and involve sex, and if you’re finding that you’re not comfortable with a monogamous relationship while in a monogamous relationship, maybe you should just listen to yourself rather than worry about how your life evolved to make you feel that way!
Just chill out and live it up, man! I was always a virtuous monogamy freak with a lot of hidden feelings for guys (I’m male), and I can easily say that letting go of defining myself sexually and just doing what feels right has really helped me figure out who I am, and has reduced stress in my life by quite a large degree.
As always, your life isn’t my life, but I hope that helps a little. :)
@aliwine, thank you for your advice about a half hard cock. I had no idea, and you may have saved my boy. Good looking out.
@triplemind, I like the advice that growlove gave you about chilling your judgments on sexuality a bit. You could very easily be bisexual and that would be nothing to be ashamed of. You also don’t need to break every girl’s heart by telling them insincere statements that you think they want to hear. Just be honest and chill. Enjoy life and have lots of safe sex. Also don’t judge your parents so much. neither of them ever came anywhere close to being perfect or right and it was never their fault. You have a responsibility to figure out the best way to live your own life.
Cheers to the rest of our lives!