What is your sexual preference?
What is your stance on where sexual preference comes from?
I am interested in answers, I’ll tell mine when I get a few =)
@aliwine, straight, so females for me. I have had a situation in my life that forced me to consider both sides (no details) and there are still times that I revisit said situation, mentally, to contemplate the effect it had and whether or not there was any fault on my part behind it.
I think it’s biological mainly, and I do think that homosexuality isn’t a ‘choice’ in the way others try to describe it as
@aliwine Up until a few years ago I considered myself to be a straight female. Although I did the stereotypical teenage thing and experimented a little and I was always able to say if I found another woman. For me now though it’s purely about love, and here’s another stereotype but love isn’t about gender (well not physical gender) for me, but the person. I am in a loving relationship of 5 years with a man. Now where things get interesting is that I believe that my brain may be more of a male brain, and that my partner may have some female behaviour attributes. Ultimately love is about balance and bringing the best out in each other. So I guess that would make me bisexual.
Yeah, I totally agree with @siantastic . It’s about love and balance.
I would say I am physically heterosexual, but spiritually bisexual. I believe the balance of hormones in you decide your sexual preference, but I also believe you can transcend them and realise we are all basically the same race, and love is race-less, boarder-less, gender-less, and maybe even species-less (if you’re into that kind of thing, haha).
I agree with you both slightly in that I think it’s a mixture of biology and society/how one is raised. Biology and the way the brain is made up being the main factor and one’s life being the second. From what I learned in a course I took in college about sexuality there are three factors that decide a person’s gender: What they’ve got between the legs, chromosomes and brain make up. So with these three differences there are all sorts of possibilities for not just gender but sexual preference as well!!
I do think I can be a little more masculine than the average female, and since I am able to procreate I think it’s safe to say I am female all across the board. However I do find women attractive, although I don’t think I could date one for their complexities. I find it easier to communicate with men than women. So men are my 1st choice, haha.
I believe we are all energy beings residing in pretty sophisticated, organic meat suits. The soul wants what it wants, regardless of what suit you happened to occupy at the moment of conception. Sometimes we’re dealt the hand we don’t want.
I am far more attracted to women (Works of biological art!!) but I wouldn’t say no to the right guy. It would have to be a real and meaningful connection, I think. No experience here so I couldn’t really say.
My wife is bi-sexual and we’ve been with other females together. We don’t really care for societal taboos and whatnot. Although, she can be a little more jealous/possessive of me than I care for…but It’s whatever, I’m loved so I don’t mind.
I’ve been told on more than one occasion that I am pan-sexual. I have been with a majority of guys but have also had relationships with women as well. Lately I can’t get past the 3 month mark with anyone but that’s for another post at a later time. Regarding sexuality,I think people can’t help who they are attracted to, mentally and physically. We are animals. plain and simple. I hear a laugh across the room that makes my heart race and I have to find out who it is. It’s hard for me to ignore that tingle.
When it comes down to it I’m interested in women. It really comes down to not wanting somebody putting their penis up my bum. I don’t want to put my penis in anyone’s bum, I don’t want anyone to my their penis in mine. I just get pretty grossed out by the thought “wow, if I put my penis in this girls butt, I will in a way being sticking my dick into poop.” That’s just kinda how I see the matter. Sexually I’m very for being with the ladies. Although, from a strictly personality side, some men have similar values to me. But I’m just not down for the junk, or putting my junk in their trunk.
For me I bond with my male friends so much better then even my girlfriend, like I have the best talks with my best friends that could go on for days, and that makes you feel a special connection with those people ya know? and I would say that I do love them and care for them very much. And even though I have felt more love towards guys then girls in my life, sexually I could never be attracted to another dude. Even hugging a friend is weird to me. But I think that your sexual preference is strictly biological, cuz I know some kids whose fathers are straight up homophobic and yet they are gay. I think gay marriage should be legalized no doubt, and in a way its kinda fucked up that its not and we are pretty much telling them they aren’t legit people. First it was the woman and their rights, then the blacks, and now its on to gays.. pretty weird to think that in this day and age we have something like that going on. But then again I think that their will always be prejudice towards groups of people, and once we settle the gay issue we will go on to vegan and vegetarian rights ;)
Very heterosexual. I’ve kissed girls and stuff, for fun or during stupid party games etc, but I have no sexual interest in women. That said, I can’t deny that I get turned on BY women, in porn or whatever, but women are more aesthetic then men generally and I think that’s natural. I can’t picture myself having sex with a woman and enjoy that image, however. I think that’s the distinction.
Your sexuality is definitely chemical and can’t be changed. I think people try and make out like it’s really complicated and there’s all these different factors but I think it’s as simple as if you wanna have sex with guys, and you’re a guy you’re gay etc etc. I think very few people are genuinely bisexual, most people who claim they are do so as some kind of statement. Kissing another girl doesn’t make you bisexual, but a lot of people seem to think it does.
I’ve been blessed with possessing no ‘gaydar’ whatsoever, so even if I was the sort of person to discriminate, I wouldn’t be able to tell anyway.
I am definitely straight but of course I experimented in high school, and I really enjoyed it. I had no problem accepting the fact that I couldn’t ever “be” with a woman, however, I find messing around with the ladies is exhilarating and fun but more on a spiritual level rather than recreational. @cloudstuck, I totally agree with you when you say that you are physically heterosexual but spiritually bisexual and I feel that I am the same way. I know I’m meant to live my life with a man but there’s also something in me that longs for a tender woman’s loving. I admit that I find males and females sexually attractive and very beautiful creatures.
Tough topic, replete with pseudo science. I’m not saying some people are not born homosexual or heterosexual, but in a historical context there have been many culture where bisexual behavior was prevelant. I believe with most people their sexual orientation is an aggregate of environment, nurture, and internal cognition. So in essence I feel we are all born with a blind desire to propogate, that is until we become indoctrinated. Then we develop a “Sexual Orientation.”
@geryon89, that is fucking hysterical!! some planet unicorn just for you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WcZAVTc94SE&feature=related
I’m mostly straight but when @dominika says “sometimes a person is so awesome that their awesomeness makes their gender irrelevant” I know exactly what she’s talking about.
I don’t have sexual preferences. I am a sexual preference.
I am sorry. My Violence Preference is stronger. :)
Heterosexual. I say that a man completes me better than a woman. I mean, yes, “a woman knows how to please a woman” and other stuff, but I like men, have always liked men, and will never cease to like men, Plus I’m in a relationship (10 months) with the most amazing man ever.
I don’t judge tho. I don’t think bisexuality/homosexuality is right, but I do not hate homosexuals and condemn them. It sends out a message of harsh judgment, and that is the exact opposite of what I wish to proclaim.
I can’t fathom how a man could favour another man over a woman.. I just can’t…
might offend some sensitive types so I’ll let it be known that just because I can’t understand it.. I’m not ignorant enough to hate anyone for their differences.
I’m straight, so I like women. I believe whatever and whoever you choose to do is up to you, just don’t go sticking stuff in my ass, or we’re gonna have some serious issues. I don’t really care whether its biological or psychological, or a personal choice, or whether or not your dad taught you how to throw a ball. We’re all the same, and love is all that matters.