strict father,,,, fantacy,,,,failure in career,,,love

 appy (@appy)6 years, 10 months ago

hello every one im from southern part of INDIA,,, (south india) generally we indians girls are not that independent espicially girls from south india,,, im from vijayawada..nw we r living in vizag,,, our family is typical indian traditional mand above middle class family ,,, my father is bank employee < andhra bank> and my mom is house wife and im having a elder brother working as a software engg…. right from my childhood i faced 2 types of situtions in my home…. in one hand my father is so gud to give us a gud life he will buy 3 pairs of dresses if i asked single pair.. i.e he never let us down..on the other hand he used to beat us like hell even for the minute mistakes.. used to feel so much bad about it … and i started living in fanteties to over come my grief … when ever my father hurts me i used to dream about a wonderfull life with my family… my child hood is filled up with these fantisies only… i used to study well in childhood bt as time passing i jus became a avg student again my father used to torchure me for this… finally i started my far away from home so i just enjoyed my life which i missed staying in home, this ruined my career in this 4 years i jus run to true love bt i filled in 2 cases atlast in my laast semister i got my perfect match .. im happy with my love life bt i completely falied in my education career having 6 backlogs nw bt to my parents i told that i passed my btech.. coz my father will smash me and even he is emotionally too weak … and my father will not accept my love also…im completely lost i wanna move away

August 10, 2014 at 2:07 am
Jordan (37) (@greystash) 6 years, 10 months ago ago

Education isn’t everything, you’ve got all of your life to do it again if you really want to. I tried doing a course at university twice and failed it both times (wasted so much money) and only realised at the end that it just wasn’t for me. I changed my studies after that and ended up getting two different degrees in other things that I loved. Jumping into university straight after I had finished school was one of the worst decisions I have ever made and I wish I had spent more time to explore what I really wanted to do. My girlfriend encouraged me more than anyone to do what I really loved doing and to never give up and was always there for me no matter what. Her advice was the best advice I had ever listened to. Don’t get trapped in an abusive situation either! they can completely ruin you and no matter how much your father spoils you with gifts etc. it will never compensate for the emotional damage done to you :(
Don’t let other people mess with your life and do what you really want to do no matter what!

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