When it comes to personal relationships I personally have a really hard time. I am too nice and try to always see the best in people, but I feel like it is taken advantage of. How do you guys get to know others? Do you ever tell them “no” just in order to see how they will treat you afterwards? Or do you test people in other ways in order to get to know their different sides?
You gotta see how they act in different settings. One on one and in bigger groups. At home, out in nature, in busy bars, and so on. Sober and intoxicated. See how they act toward strangers, waiters, beggars, and their own family.
Don’t invent weird tests. Just speak your mind, state your honest opinions and feelings, and see how they respond.