I would like to share with all of you this beautiful explanation on Relationships.
Thank you for posting this great speech.
This man has great charisma and a very loving vibe.
I felt that he put in words was I was feeling when I quitted my relationship with a girlfriend a few weeks ago. We do not help ourselve when we focus on growing by acquisition of symbols (car, children, house,…).
We need to grow by acquisition of a deep appreciation of what is around us.
But is physical change appropriate in find better situations to grow yourself or is the unhappy adaptation of more value. To turn unhealthy situations into healthy ones through forced growth? Great video, I am definitely going to listen to more of his talks!
So should we not ever consider being in relationships? I swear I found my soul mate that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I thought he felt the same way, but he has recently expressed that he is losing feelings. We just hit our three year anniversary btw. I am at such a low point in my life right now. I feel so lost. This video is telling me things I don’t want to hear, but I know I need to hear them.
I totally understand the feeling of “fresh energy”. I always felt guilty whenever I connected to someone of the opposite sex.. I do love that feeling… But not as much as my boyfriend and the connections I feel with him :(
I don’t want to get hurt anymore.
Basically what I’m asking is…
Is he saying we shouldn’t even bother with relationships (boyfriend/girlfriend relationships)? I mean why should we if they will “fail” anyways? :(
Thanks for the post
@yinyang, I don’t think that we shouldn’t be in a relationship. Each person that comes to our life brings something, that helps us grow and go through deep self discovery through someone else eyes. “Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us certain lesson”. So I believe that relationship are just to help us evolve, grow, understand, find our true self. And vice-verse. When it comes to Soul mates, I also truly believe I have found mine. Well….we found each other. But we are separated as well. But guess what…he brought the most important changes to my life. And then he “was gone”. So u see my point?
That’s just my opinion through my experiences that i gained.
And as to the relationships that we wish to last and be like in fairy tales ( yes these exists) , well…as longest each partners find our their true self , then that’s all possible.
We will always “get hurt”. Though, it all depends how we look at stuff. We can get hurt and feel the pain…or just let everything be and look for purpose and meaning in everything, as everything happens for a reason.
@existentia, Indeed. Hes has a beautiful, pure, loving vibes. He truly helped me out through my harder times through “awakening” and just in general help me understand things. And mostly, just feel better inside. His words are truly healing. Please check out more of his videos. He shares some beautiful speeches.