to mean something

 landisian (@landisian)5 years, 2 months ago

What is it when someone means something to you.. When someone makes you a better person.. When you meet someone and you do things you’ve never done before.. When you’ve only known each other for a short time but it’s quality time not quantity of time. When they’re the only person you want to spend time with… You both agree you enjoy being single and your not looking for anything serious,  yet you turn down any opertunity to get to know anyone else ” date” .you get nervous when you know you will see them yet it makes your whole day just to hear from them… I’ve dated before and been in long term relationships.  This feels different… I understand emotions very well,  but only ones I’ve felt… This one feels new… She means something to me and I value our friendship.. I would be happy with being alone my whole life as long as it means we will stay friends… I don’t know how she feels and I’m confused at how I feel… What is this emotion.. Should I tell her how I feel,  let things go and see what happens,  or should I live my life and meet more people… Confusion… 

February 22, 2016 at 6:27 pm
Anjelica (101) (@Anjelica) 5 years, 2 months ago ago

Tell her how you feel. Why are you questioning what this is?? She might not be receptive but it usually means the other person feels that way about you when you feel this way. It’s not scary to make your self vulnerable, it’s not even really vulnerable. You’re just putting your self out there, following your passion. Please don’t pretend that isn’t enough of a lead. 

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landisian (7) (@landisian) 5 years, 2 months ago ago

The problem with that is when we met we both said we weren’t looking for anything serious.. To not get any feeling. 

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Anjelica (101) (@Anjelica) 5 years, 2 months ago ago

That sounds like a waste of time to share space with someone and have a mutual agreement to be cut off emotionally..

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landisian (7) (@landisian) 5 years, 2 months ago ago

That wasn’t completely what I meant… We decided we didn’t want anything serious… We basically said we liked where we our in our own lives ..we aren’t looking for a relationship.. We just wanted to get to know each other and we just go with the flow… 

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Anjelica (101) (@Anjelica) 5 years, 2 months ago ago

I think going with the flow means following what you’re feeling like you want. 

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