[Tricks] How to step out of the comfort zone?

Some things that help me step out of my comfort zone are forcing myself to say things out loud instead of just sitting there quietly in social situations, trying for things that seem “impossible” at the time just to see if it can happen, and making plans or commitments that I want even if I don’t feel prepared for them, so that I will have to get outside of my comfort zone to accomplish them.

I kind of bully myself into doing it haha.

Inward mockery, ridicule, threats, bribes, whatever. Also, acting like I’m already there so people will dare me to prove myself.

I’m a laidback person by nature, but this method powerfully triggers my motivation 9 times out of ten. And most of the time, the results are positive. Now, the problem is just finding reasons for things.

Admit that it’s more uncomfortable than being your true spark 

To me, it is very hard to show my love to special people in my surrounding (like my family). In difficult situations, I ask myself how I will imagine the scene afterwards (how I will later wish it would have happened) and than I try to act like that. So even if it goes totally against what I’m feeling, I try to hug my parents for example, because I know there’s a barier I actually don’t want. I hope that it’s understandable..

I recently walked away from everything I have and known for the last 15years and went into drug treatment. I left my very best friend who remains in the apt I used to live in with him.I walked away from it all to save my life. I don’t know anyone here and I miss my friend. I want to adapt here so I can finally be free of addiction! 

My “trick” is to understand that none of this matters in the grand scheme. The universe is 14 billion years old, our existence is only a few years if we’re lucky, and after we die everything we do, our kids do and our grandkids do will eventually fade away. We will be dead for the trillions and trillions of years after our 100-year life. Nothing we do can really change that so just accept it. Do not take yourself or what you do so seriously. I think about this before every client meeting and every speech when I am nervous. Because what am I nervous about? What these people think of me? If they fire me? What is really going to happen if I fail big time? None of it matters, I don’t care who is in the audience. 

Also would like to learn how to be more active and, I’d say, flowing.

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The sentence “what would you do if you weren´t afraid” always forces me. From my own experience, most of the time when i´m hesitating, I´m just afraid of what´s going to happen.