What are some really good books on approaching and picking up women ?

 Mithu (@kmidhun)5 years, 9 months ago

November 27, 2015 at 10:39 pm
Mirthful (13) (@mirthful) 5 years, 9 months ago ago

The Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu has some great advice that can be applied to any situation.

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Mithu (7) (@kmidhun) 5 years, 9 months ago ago

Thanks bro. I’ll definitely check out this book.

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Martijn Schirp (112,780)A (@martijn) 5 years, 9 months ago ago

I find ‘picking up women’ such a weird term, as if they are passive objects waiting to be handled. I read ‘the game’ when I was younger and it was a fun read, but I never really needed advice. (been together for almost 10 years now with the same wonderful girl.)

My personal advice would be to feel your resistance levels and start exposing yourself to your anxieties, fear of rejection/failure etc. Just go out and have fun, they are just normal people. Don’t go out with getting towards a goal, you will find yourself trying to force a situation, and that will only come across as awkward. Really value the other person, and when you disagree, just say so (nobody wants someone who always agrees.)
So, in essence, you don’t really need advice. You need to get out there and put yourself in many situation where you interact with women. Intentions equal results. 
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Mithu (7) (@kmidhun) 5 years, 9 months ago ago

Thanks martign. I really appreciate your genuine advice

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