Last summer i met a girl. I live in New York and she sadly moved to Portland not long after we really started to know each other. Ever since she moved there we haven’t stopped talking, we skype every now and then, along with texting everyday and using technology to our fullest advantage. Over time we went from friends to great friends to best friends and after a while she admitted that she had feelings for me while i had feelings for her. We did nothing considering the long distance and to continue with our lives romantically, socially and everything that came along but decided that since the feelings were still there that we would wait until the summer when we would have the chance to see each other again.
Although, for me the feelings are much more than that. the distance doesn’t matter and i want to have a long distance relationship even though she doesn’t want it. I get jealous when shes had her relationships and shes become jealous over mine. My question is this:
Should i give up due to the distance and recent heartbreak that has and could happen? or should i really commit towards waiting until summer considering my feelings?
I think if she’s the one that you’re supposed to be with you would know. If you do, that’s great. I will give you the best piece of advice you’re going to get from anybody.. follow your heart for it will tell you the right path to take.. Always listen to your heart.
Do what you want.
Personally I’d forget about being in a long distance relationship and I’d get with other women. When she comes back it’s fine to be with her and when she leaves get with other women when you want to. No relationships involved.
We are animals and have the freedom to fuck who ever we want. It’s only natural not to stick with one person. Traditional relationships and monogamy are just fake concepts and you don’t have to get jealous if she has a gang bang with ten other guys.
How old are you
how long will she be back
Human contact is a very important part of life and of a relationship. that being said I would talk to her, if you listen to your heart and it tells you that you two are meant to be, ask if she would move back to NY or ask yourself if you would move to Portland to be with her. If neither of you can leave and it is going to stay long distance maybe it wasn’t meant to be.
My heart tells me to be with her more than anything, I need to be with her but considering our agreement, im scared that her feelings will change over time and there will be nothing when summer comes…..that’s why I haven’t decided anything on what to do