What do you think are the necessary gears to be social intelligent?

Matheus Pinheiro (@Mattgood) 8 years, 1 month ago

I just want to know from lots of people a question that I make myself almost everyday.
What do you boys and girls think is necessary to have an efficient social life?

October 28, 2013 at 10:45 am
Rami (42) (@cyberdream) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

i just know that the harder you work on it , the less efficient it becomes .

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Matheus Pinheiro (44) (@Mattgood) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@cyberdream, I know what you mean with that. It is like searching for approve of everybody is not the best way to go for that.

I am studying a little about society and relations among people and searching for that will not take you anywhere.

With love life is completely different, but I try to do my best to get women, like every man does.

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Fernando (68) (@fercgomes) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@mattgood, Maybe the question should be around whether it is important to have a efficient social life or not. I think that social relationships are something that happen naturally and indirectly, in a way that you can’t change it directly, for example when saying that you will out of nowhere start being more sociable and talk more to people. I think if you change your attitude towards life, the way you relate to people will change, for better or for worse. As @cyberdream said, the harder you work on it, the less efficient it becomes. Trying to get more efficient will only get you more expectations from yourself, leading to disappointment and frustration. Let it grow naturally, aiming where you want it to grow.

Just out of curiosity, are you brazilian?

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Matheus Pinheiro (44) (@Mattgood) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@fercgomes, Yes, I am from Brazil! But I am really curious and I learn languages to bring the knowledge from abroad to use it here!

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Fernando (68) (@fercgomes) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@mattgood, Yeah, gotcha bro. ; )

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Manimal (2,998) (@manimal) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@cyberdream, Nonsense.


@mattgood
, Not much is necessary, really. Chill and be real, and bring the excitement.

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